The Perfect Relationship is Based on Sex- True or False?
Sex and Toothpaste Everyone wants a great sex life don't they?Of course they do, but what is "great" and is it different for different people? Is it possible that knowing about your partner's toothpaste preferences can make a better relationship?YES! Passionate love making is based on many factors, but as you probably know, after the initial six month honeymoon phase of a relationship, sex might tend to become routine.
What can bring it back - or stop the doldrums in the first place?What can make the relationship an ongoing steady love - the kind you've always wanted, even craved? Ask and Receive Good sex, not the routine kind many couples fall into,comes from a sense of play, fun, desire, respect and acceptance.
However, how do you know what your partner thinks is fun?You don't!Not unless you ask.
How do you know if your partner is to be respected unless you ask about his or her stance on certain issues?You have to ask! The time to ask about your partner's views on politics is not in bed!These kinds of questions should be discussed over coffee, maybe even in a series of emails.
If you want to do 'undercover' work, that's the place to ask, "Honey, what are your three favorite places to be kissed?" Back to Sex and Toothpaste This is an extreme example, but here is where knowing something ahead of time can make you both happier.
If your partner says, "I will never put the cap on the toothpaste.
",you don't have to panic and run off looking for someone else.
If you know this ahead of time, then you have fair warning, and can simply say, "Fine, two tubes, one for you, one for me.
" It won't turn dreary into dynamic, but it will head off one irritation of married life that sometimes is built on many small ones.
Learning that your partner can't have children is something you need to know if you want children, but you would be surprised how many people wait until marriage to find out something as important as this.
How about religion?Do you really want your child baptized? If the answer is no, better not find out as you head off to the church.
How about courage? generosity? zest for life? celebrating birthdays?How much of so many topics do you not know about your partner? Is the perfect relationship based on sex?What I think doesn't matter.
But do you know what your partner thinks? These are some of the questions you need answers to so you won't be surprised, disappointed or resentful.
There are many other questions to find out what you need to know so you can build a fun, loving, and respectful relationship - the kind that leads to great sex!You can learn what these questions are and how to ask them.
What can bring it back - or stop the doldrums in the first place?What can make the relationship an ongoing steady love - the kind you've always wanted, even craved? Ask and Receive Good sex, not the routine kind many couples fall into,comes from a sense of play, fun, desire, respect and acceptance.
However, how do you know what your partner thinks is fun?You don't!Not unless you ask.
How do you know if your partner is to be respected unless you ask about his or her stance on certain issues?You have to ask! The time to ask about your partner's views on politics is not in bed!These kinds of questions should be discussed over coffee, maybe even in a series of emails.
If you want to do 'undercover' work, that's the place to ask, "Honey, what are your three favorite places to be kissed?" Back to Sex and Toothpaste This is an extreme example, but here is where knowing something ahead of time can make you both happier.
If your partner says, "I will never put the cap on the toothpaste.
",you don't have to panic and run off looking for someone else.
If you know this ahead of time, then you have fair warning, and can simply say, "Fine, two tubes, one for you, one for me.
" It won't turn dreary into dynamic, but it will head off one irritation of married life that sometimes is built on many small ones.
Learning that your partner can't have children is something you need to know if you want children, but you would be surprised how many people wait until marriage to find out something as important as this.
How about religion?Do you really want your child baptized? If the answer is no, better not find out as you head off to the church.
How about courage? generosity? zest for life? celebrating birthdays?How much of so many topics do you not know about your partner? Is the perfect relationship based on sex?What I think doesn't matter.
But do you know what your partner thinks? These are some of the questions you need answers to so you won't be surprised, disappointed or resentful.
There are many other questions to find out what you need to know so you can build a fun, loving, and respectful relationship - the kind that leads to great sex!You can learn what these questions are and how to ask them.