If you've ever experienced a guy in a nightclub move up to a lady he did not know and then make out with her almost immediately, it could be a completely mind-blowing experience. It may seem like it's magical or maybe unrealistic - a special capability or super-power that somebody comes into the world with.

However it's not. And it could be categorized in a few easy ways you could follow in order to make the same thing happen to you. In the following paragraphs, I'm going to explain these ways.

The first thing is to realize that about 90% of the difference between someone who seems to be great with girls and a person who's not very good or mediocre with women, is the ability to see a woman that's ready to make out.

Yes, it looks quite silly at first, but it's a fact. If you happen to step into a bar and go up to any woman without knowing what signs to watch out for, the chances of scoring go WAY down.

You need to know how you can identify that woman who is without a doubt in that "make-out ready" state, so you can walk up and be "that guy."

Don't buy into the myth that ladies are not looking for this to happen.

Women are as sexual (if not more sexual) than fellas are. In most cases, this "turbo" make-out session never happens, since many guys are afraid to go for it. When this doesn't happen, the women end up going home alone or worse.. staying being kinda hostile to the majority of guys in the bar/being resentful and mad because no one's approaching them.

By putting this approach straight into practice, you want to discover how to see the ladies who you're able to make out with in 40 seconds or less in the first place.

There are a few great indicators which may (especially in a club atmosphere) tell you if a woman is game, or ready for an immediate make-out session.

What To Look For

The very first sign is a girl looking down often. Any time a girl looks down often, she's accessing her thoughts.

Ok, i'll explain... As soon as we look in different directions, we access various parts of our brain. They are known as "Eye Accessing Cues." Every time a woman is in a bar sitting and looking down, she's accessing her emotional brain.

When she makes eye contact with you, looks down then back up again, she's saying: "I have an emotional response to you looking at me and I'm looking down." And if she tilts her head down as well (and doesn't just use her eyes to look down), she's physically dropping herself slightly lower and indicating submission.

This gives you the power to walk up and be the dominant man.

Now, if she looks at you, smiles and doesn't look away, this might be a lot more tough scenario. Socially, she's meeting you head on, but not showing immediate submission.

Girls that you will be able to walk up to and make out with within 40 seconds or even less should automatically take the submissive role as a woman. That's one sign which shows that you can quickly make out with her.

Another sign is the fact that she's actively looking around to make eye contact. This can be important. A girl that is engaged with somebody specifically and she is not looking away is not going to be as easy to seduce in 40 seconds or less. It will take more time.

Once again, you will have to play an entirely different kind of game whenever you walk up. You can not just walk up and make out with her.

So instead, if you see a woman who is in a conversation but she's constantly looking around and trying to make eye contact with a lot of people, this is probably a very, very g opportunity for you and that's a woman you can walk up to and immediately become sexual with.

Other traits are revealed in the way they're moving and how they're dressed. Let's say she's standing with her feet about shoulder-width apart. It's less likely that a woman standing like this is going to be available for you to walk up and dominate. That's because she's standing in a dominant position, with stronger body language and she'll probably be a lot more resistant.

Instead, you want to find a woman who takes up less space. She has her legs closer together and seems to be outside of a group, looking around a little bit.

Another thing is the way she's dressed. If she's dressed in a way that's super flashy and attracting lots of attention, she probably isn't the kind of girl you can walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds.

This kind of women is looking for attention - not for someone to dominate them. What you want is someone who's in between "I don't care" and "Stare at my tits, bitch!" Somewhere between wearing sweatpants with an elastic waistband to the bar and done up really, really beautiful and sexy with a really low-cut shirt. You want to find someone who's in between those two extremes.

A lot of women who are on vacation fall into this realm. They don't want to over dress or under dress, and don't know how the bar atmosphere is going to be. They'll usually come in open-minded, and start looking around trying to make connections. This is an excellent situation for you (and her, of course).

That's what to look for and how you spot her in the first place. If you see some of those, you want to watch her for a second. If you think that she is the kind of person you can walk up to and do this, then proceed.

If not, I'd actually suggest you proceed anyway, just to see what happens.

Next, right after you get that done and you've seen your girl (there are probably three or four of these girls in a bar at any given moment) you're going to walk up and start the scary part.

What To Do

This is when the most powerful type of frame control comes in. It's very, extremely important that you learn how to control another person's frame if you want to come across like you are a pro at this.

By "frame," I basically mean their "reality." You're controlling the things they experience. You need to be able to stay in control of that experience in order to really bring her to the stage where she feels comfortable making out with you immediately.

I'm going to give you a quick, punchy, fast way of doing this. I'll show you as quick as possible; that way you're able to go straight out and then try it...

Here is what I might say, word-for-word... Walk up to a woman, when you get up to her and right when she makes eye-to-eye contact with you, I want you to SLOWLY put your finger up by your lips and say this, "Shhh€¦"

Then slow your speech pattern down and deepen your vocal tonality. And instantly say, "Wait just one moment."

You can even say, "Stop for one minute." I suggest using a bit of NLP here. Whenever someone hears "stop," "wait," or "don't," they immediately register whatever comes after that.

So if I say, "Don't think of a black hat," what do you do? Straight away, you think of a black hat and whatever version of one you have in your mind.

Now if I said, "Don't try to make out with me," or "Don't make out with me right now," girls will likely be consciously hearing, "Don't make out with me," but their subconscious minds will be hearing, "Make out with me right now!"

You're attempting to sort of use real-life Inception to get making-out with you to be HER idea. She must be thinking, "I should make out with this guy."

Now, during frame control you'll be using a lot of these subconscious triggers in order to get this to start as fast as possible.

Don't attempt to seduce women who don't want to be seduced. Again, that's one of the reasons why it's essential that you notice a woman who really does want to be seduced by a man.

So to recap so far: you walk up, you put your finger over your lips and you tell her to "Shhh" for a second and then you say a sentence that starts with "don't" or "wait" or "stop."

My typical is "Don't worry... right now." That's all I say.

Then I go straight into the following statement, that is, "You and I