Getting Back Together With Your Ex and Making it Last
It was that perfect moment - the night was dark, the stars were bright, the breeze was soft, and you held the most beautiful woman arms.
And suddenly, you were without thought ...
you moved closer, your lips touching hers ever so gently.
You wanted it, she wanted it.
It was right - life is great! Or so you thought...
Here you have the most perfect woman in the world, but you become dependent on her.
You start waiting around for her, because she is so perfect.
You start putting her above you making her out to be a queen that you think she is.
She notices this -- this neediness.
She was attracted to a man, who had his own life - not this guy that is catering to her every whim.
Suddenly, her interest levels fall greatly, and you're alone...
you've lost the most perfect girl.
What happened? Confusing, I know...
Women like to be in control, but once you give them all that control, they actually lose total interest for you.
It's like a cat with a ball of yarn - they can play with it all day long as long as they never actually catch it.
However, once you give them the ball of yarn, they'll grab it...
look at it for a few more minutes and will leave it because it's not nearly as entertaining.
With love, it's very true that the journey is more important than the destination.
So now you're thinking "Well, I've got to make getting back with my ex the most important goal now!" Unfortunately, you couldn't be more wrong.
The more you push in that direction, the more she will pull away and become even more distant.
They lack their independence and you're just stuffing her even more.
So what's the answer to getting back with your ex? Easy! Ignore her...
Odd I know, but the only thing you can do now is give her what she wants.
Don't watch those silly romance movies nor listen to your friends that tell you to buy her presents and flowers...
you're only wasting money and time.
Be that guy that she fell in love with in the first place - the guy that she was attracted to.
I bet that guy had a full life, with a lot of hobbies and didn't care about what he did.
He didn't look for anyone's approval nor did he worry about women.
He only worried about himself - and did what he pleased.
So be that guy again...
that's pure confidence, and that's what women are truly attracted to.
When you take the lead again in the dance of life, all the women will want to be around you again.
What will she do? Easy - it doesn't matter because you won't care.
You're back to your old self and you're going to live life whether or not she calls you.
But more than likely, because you're doing your own thing, not contacting her, she'll probably try to make contact with you.
If and when she does, play it calm, cool and steady.
Let her know that that you're pretty busy but you'll make some time for her.
Something cheap, and chilled out.
Nothing fancy like a hot dinner - your whimsical mood will drive her mad! And before long, you won't be searching online for "getting back with your ex!"
And suddenly, you were without thought ...
you moved closer, your lips touching hers ever so gently.
You wanted it, she wanted it.
It was right - life is great! Or so you thought...
Here you have the most perfect woman in the world, but you become dependent on her.
You start waiting around for her, because she is so perfect.
You start putting her above you making her out to be a queen that you think she is.
She notices this -- this neediness.
She was attracted to a man, who had his own life - not this guy that is catering to her every whim.
Suddenly, her interest levels fall greatly, and you're alone...
you've lost the most perfect girl.
What happened? Confusing, I know...
Women like to be in control, but once you give them all that control, they actually lose total interest for you.
It's like a cat with a ball of yarn - they can play with it all day long as long as they never actually catch it.
However, once you give them the ball of yarn, they'll grab it...
look at it for a few more minutes and will leave it because it's not nearly as entertaining.
With love, it's very true that the journey is more important than the destination.
So now you're thinking "Well, I've got to make getting back with my ex the most important goal now!" Unfortunately, you couldn't be more wrong.
The more you push in that direction, the more she will pull away and become even more distant.
They lack their independence and you're just stuffing her even more.
So what's the answer to getting back with your ex? Easy! Ignore her...
Odd I know, but the only thing you can do now is give her what she wants.
Don't watch those silly romance movies nor listen to your friends that tell you to buy her presents and flowers...
you're only wasting money and time.
Be that guy that she fell in love with in the first place - the guy that she was attracted to.
I bet that guy had a full life, with a lot of hobbies and didn't care about what he did.
He didn't look for anyone's approval nor did he worry about women.
He only worried about himself - and did what he pleased.
So be that guy again...
that's pure confidence, and that's what women are truly attracted to.
When you take the lead again in the dance of life, all the women will want to be around you again.
What will she do? Easy - it doesn't matter because you won't care.
You're back to your old self and you're going to live life whether or not she calls you.
But more than likely, because you're doing your own thing, not contacting her, she'll probably try to make contact with you.
If and when she does, play it calm, cool and steady.
Let her know that that you're pretty busy but you'll make some time for her.
Something cheap, and chilled out.
Nothing fancy like a hot dinner - your whimsical mood will drive her mad! And before long, you won't be searching online for "getting back with your ex!"