Find a Love - Is there a Way to Avoid Boredom in Your Dating Relationship?
Is it possible to avoid boredom in your dating relationship? Boredom will start to eventually creep into the life of all relationships, but you can avoid the problems associated with boredom if you decide, in the beginning of your dating relationship, to work hard and try to keep boredom from ever creeping in.
It’s a fact…dating relationships take work. They don’t fall apart suddenly. The decay of a dating relationship happens slowly over time and many times it happens under the radar and we don’t realize it until it’s too late. As singles in a dating relationship trying to find a love that lasts, make a commitment to each other that you will work hard at the dating relationship and cherish your partner as the number one priority in your life.
Learn to recognize the signs that you and your partner are pulling apart from each other. Are either of you unhappy? Do you snap easily? Are you under pressure? Is your dating relationship missing the zing that it used to have?
One solution is to bring some fun back into the mix. Be spontaneous and surprise your partner with a weekend getaway. You are most likely not so far gone towards destruction in your dating relationship that you need to get counseling. So, try to figure out why the spark is missing and add some fun again. Partners that enjoy each other’s company and like to hang out together as friends will stay together in a happy dating relationship forever or at least a lot longer than two people that are not good friends. You need to be best friends as well as lovers.
Don’t take your partner for granted. Noted marriage counselor, Dr. Gary Smalley, has discussed in his various books the theme that we need to be amazed and in awe of our partner and the people in our lives that we love. When you’re in awe of something, you are so overcome with joy and happiness over that object or idea. We need to channel that into our partner’s life. Encourage your partner. Tell him or her how great you feel when you are near them. Express praise to your partner for the great job he or she does at work or around the house. It’s been noted that it takes seven positives to cancel out a negative in our lives in regard to communications. Don’t speak overly negatively to your partner. Always opt for the encouraging way to say something, even if it is about a trouble area. Speak the truth in love.
Once you get through this stage, boredom will not always hang around. Relationships grow and you will be on a high and then low and then high again. The issue is that love is a decision and as you date and seek to find a love, you need to realize that fact and work hard at your dating relationships. When the troubles come, stay and work them out. That’s what commitment is all about; it’s the only way to find true love.
It’s a fact…dating relationships take work. They don’t fall apart suddenly. The decay of a dating relationship happens slowly over time and many times it happens under the radar and we don’t realize it until it’s too late. As singles in a dating relationship trying to find a love that lasts, make a commitment to each other that you will work hard at the dating relationship and cherish your partner as the number one priority in your life.
Learn to recognize the signs that you and your partner are pulling apart from each other. Are either of you unhappy? Do you snap easily? Are you under pressure? Is your dating relationship missing the zing that it used to have?
One solution is to bring some fun back into the mix. Be spontaneous and surprise your partner with a weekend getaway. You are most likely not so far gone towards destruction in your dating relationship that you need to get counseling. So, try to figure out why the spark is missing and add some fun again. Partners that enjoy each other’s company and like to hang out together as friends will stay together in a happy dating relationship forever or at least a lot longer than two people that are not good friends. You need to be best friends as well as lovers.
Don’t take your partner for granted. Noted marriage counselor, Dr. Gary Smalley, has discussed in his various books the theme that we need to be amazed and in awe of our partner and the people in our lives that we love. When you’re in awe of something, you are so overcome with joy and happiness over that object or idea. We need to channel that into our partner’s life. Encourage your partner. Tell him or her how great you feel when you are near them. Express praise to your partner for the great job he or she does at work or around the house. It’s been noted that it takes seven positives to cancel out a negative in our lives in regard to communications. Don’t speak overly negatively to your partner. Always opt for the encouraging way to say something, even if it is about a trouble area. Speak the truth in love.
Once you get through this stage, boredom will not always hang around. Relationships grow and you will be on a high and then low and then high again. The issue is that love is a decision and as you date and seek to find a love, you need to realize that fact and work hard at your dating relationships. When the troubles come, stay and work them out. That’s what commitment is all about; it’s the only way to find true love.