Lately you have had the distinct feeling that something is wrong in your relationship. Your boyfriend is not as attentive as he used to be, and seems to want to start arguments with you all the time. There is trouble in your relationship, and if you want to keep your boyfriend from breaking up with you, you need to do something about it right away.

First of all, without knowing what exactly is wrong, there is nothing you can do to solve the problem, so you need to find out what is wrong. Without being too emotional, talk to your boyfriend. Tell him that you have noticed that things are not the same between you, and that you would really like to know what is wrong, so that you can fix the problem.

Now, you must listen very carefully to your boyfriend without interrupting him. Let him pour his heart out to you, and take in everything that he says. Once he has had his say, tell him that you would like to discuss these problems, and that you want to do anything you can to fix them. Ask him if he agrees with you.

If he does, then work through each problem in turn, as well as ways to fix them. Of course, all the problems in your relationship can't be caused by only you, so you need to also talk to him about things that he does that are upsetting you. Suggest to him ways to fix these problems.

You might just find that, because you have handled this situation in such a mature way, that it is a great way to keep your boyfriend from breaking up with you. He will be relieved that you are not crying about the problems, but are rather trying to sort them out, so as to keep the relationship on track.

You are not behaving like a spoiled brat, and even the fact that he is to blame for some of the problems, you have shown him that you are willing to have a fifty-fifty relationship with him, and that you want everything between the two of you to be fair.

Keep your boyfriend from breaking up with you - be open, honest, loving, and fair and you will have a good chance of a long and happy relationship.