3 Reasons Your Boyfriend May Have Left
There are many things that can make a man leave the love of his life, and often if you can identify them you can fix the problem and get him back.
Out of all the possible reasons for a guy to leave, here are the top 3 most likely culprits you may find to be the source of your breakup.
1.
Girls, TV shows make it funny but there are few things more likely to make a man panic and head for the exit than a controlling and bossy wife or girlfriend.
Some personality or integrity is one thing, but when a girl takes over her guy's life it tends to be a suffocating, constricting thing that men just aren't designed to take.
By nature we're roaming spirits...
society has made most of us into loyal fellas who'll stick by you in spite of it, but when a guy feels trapped instincts kick in and the door looks pretty attractive.
2.
Lack of "zest" in a relationship is also pretty bad for guys.
I'm not trying to say that everything needs to be about spontaneity and craziness, and I'm certainly not referring only to the "intimacy" part of the relationship, but a man needs some flavor to keep it going.
Really anybody, man or woman, is going to get antsy when every day seems like it's the same thing over again.
"Dull" and "boring" are harsh words, but they can raise in a man's mind if the relationship loses the luster it had when it first began.
There are a lot of little ways to keep things interesting, and contrary to what you may think...
they don't necessarily have to involve the bedroom.
3.
It's an ugly fact of life that I hate to ever even acknowledge, but it's unavoidable if I want to be honest about this: infidelity in a relationship is one of the absolute top causes for breakups today.
People just can't seem to understand that cheating on one another is wrong...
or else they just don't care.
Whatever the case, cheating on your partner breaks a trust and shatters the person being betrayed...
it hurts both men and women, and just because the stereotype is for guys to be the ones prone to cheating doesn't mean women aren't just as bad about it these days.
If this is what caused your breakup, I'm sure you already know it...
but also know that if you play your cards right even this can be recovered from.
Those are the Top 3...
they're not pretty and it can be hard to admit that you had a hand in letting them tear apart your relationship, but the sooner you accept your share of the blame and identify what it was that took the two of you down, the better your chances of dealing with the things that are keeping you apart.
Nearly 95% of breakups can be resolved successfully with the couple going on to be quite happy together...
you just have to know where you stand and what you need to do.
Out of all the possible reasons for a guy to leave, here are the top 3 most likely culprits you may find to be the source of your breakup.
1.
Girls, TV shows make it funny but there are few things more likely to make a man panic and head for the exit than a controlling and bossy wife or girlfriend.
Some personality or integrity is one thing, but when a girl takes over her guy's life it tends to be a suffocating, constricting thing that men just aren't designed to take.
By nature we're roaming spirits...
society has made most of us into loyal fellas who'll stick by you in spite of it, but when a guy feels trapped instincts kick in and the door looks pretty attractive.
2.
Lack of "zest" in a relationship is also pretty bad for guys.
I'm not trying to say that everything needs to be about spontaneity and craziness, and I'm certainly not referring only to the "intimacy" part of the relationship, but a man needs some flavor to keep it going.
Really anybody, man or woman, is going to get antsy when every day seems like it's the same thing over again.
"Dull" and "boring" are harsh words, but they can raise in a man's mind if the relationship loses the luster it had when it first began.
There are a lot of little ways to keep things interesting, and contrary to what you may think...
they don't necessarily have to involve the bedroom.
3.
It's an ugly fact of life that I hate to ever even acknowledge, but it's unavoidable if I want to be honest about this: infidelity in a relationship is one of the absolute top causes for breakups today.
People just can't seem to understand that cheating on one another is wrong...
or else they just don't care.
Whatever the case, cheating on your partner breaks a trust and shatters the person being betrayed...
it hurts both men and women, and just because the stereotype is for guys to be the ones prone to cheating doesn't mean women aren't just as bad about it these days.
If this is what caused your breakup, I'm sure you already know it...
but also know that if you play your cards right even this can be recovered from.
Those are the Top 3...
they're not pretty and it can be hard to admit that you had a hand in letting them tear apart your relationship, but the sooner you accept your share of the blame and identify what it was that took the two of you down, the better your chances of dealing with the things that are keeping you apart.
Nearly 95% of breakups can be resolved successfully with the couple going on to be quite happy together...
you just have to know where you stand and what you need to do.