How to become an alpha male in 3 easy steps!
In man's eternal quest to seduce women (and hopefully as many as possible!) we look for every possible "trick" or "technique" out there. But this sometimes makes us focus on the wrong the outside too much, instead of focusing on us and how we act.
You're one step ahead of all the other guys out there because you're actually looking to "change" how you behave around women and in general.
Just like in nature, there is always an alpha male, the one who everybody looks for to see what they're going to do. He eats first, he picks his ladies first, he tells the beta males to chase after that prey because the alpha male just can't be bothered (HE'S ALPHA!)
With humans, the same thing applies (because like it or not, we're all just a bunch of animals) but few people realize this and therefore end up being beta males by default. You may fall into this category and up until now you've just accepted it.
But NO MORE, right? Exactly!
If you want to become an alpha male you're going to need to relax, this is step 1.
If you're in a room, don't be afraid to "claim' or own a big chunk of the room and don't be fidgety either. Nothing screams beta harder than a guy fidgeting all the time.
Breathe through your belly, don't be afraid to use arm movements and be comfortable looking into her arms. You should be as relaxed as when you're at home.
Second thing you should do is closely linked to number one. You can not be NEEDY. As in you don't need her, you don't need sex, or your friends or anything.
If you're with your friends in a club and spot a really nice looking girl, just go over to meet her. You are the alpha male, remember? You don't need permission to move about, so do it!
Also, because you're not needy, you don't care if she rejects you or not. If you two hook up, great! But if you two don't hook up, that's great too!
Now think for a second how you act when someone calls your name; do you quickly turn your head to see who called you? Or do you slowly turn your head and check?
The second way to check is the alpha male way, because if you do it quickly you're sending a message that you're desperate for attention. "who's calling ME???" Instead of if you do it slowly, you're sending out a message that states 'yeah yeah I heard you"
This shows that you are in control, which is step number 3.
Control how you talk to a woman, don't speak too fast or high. Try some voice exercises to find your deep voice and always remember to talk in a clam and soothing tone.
Take control of the conversation as well, lead her through it and lead the situation as well. If you want to go eat somehwere don't ask her "where do you want to eat?" Women in general don't want to make the decisions all the time. So do that for her and decide for yourself.
While these 3 quick steps will help you A LOT you'll get even more mileage out of the book "How to become an alpha male" by John Alexander. Click here for a review of that book.
You're one step ahead of all the other guys out there because you're actually looking to "change" how you behave around women and in general.
Just like in nature, there is always an alpha male, the one who everybody looks for to see what they're going to do. He eats first, he picks his ladies first, he tells the beta males to chase after that prey because the alpha male just can't be bothered (HE'S ALPHA!)
With humans, the same thing applies (because like it or not, we're all just a bunch of animals) but few people realize this and therefore end up being beta males by default. You may fall into this category and up until now you've just accepted it.
But NO MORE, right? Exactly!
If you want to become an alpha male you're going to need to relax, this is step 1.
If you're in a room, don't be afraid to "claim' or own a big chunk of the room and don't be fidgety either. Nothing screams beta harder than a guy fidgeting all the time.
Breathe through your belly, don't be afraid to use arm movements and be comfortable looking into her arms. You should be as relaxed as when you're at home.
Second thing you should do is closely linked to number one. You can not be NEEDY. As in you don't need her, you don't need sex, or your friends or anything.
If you're with your friends in a club and spot a really nice looking girl, just go over to meet her. You are the alpha male, remember? You don't need permission to move about, so do it!
Also, because you're not needy, you don't care if she rejects you or not. If you two hook up, great! But if you two don't hook up, that's great too!
Now think for a second how you act when someone calls your name; do you quickly turn your head to see who called you? Or do you slowly turn your head and check?
The second way to check is the alpha male way, because if you do it quickly you're sending a message that you're desperate for attention. "who's calling ME???" Instead of if you do it slowly, you're sending out a message that states 'yeah yeah I heard you"
This shows that you are in control, which is step number 3.
Control how you talk to a woman, don't speak too fast or high. Try some voice exercises to find your deep voice and always remember to talk in a clam and soothing tone.
Take control of the conversation as well, lead her through it and lead the situation as well. If you want to go eat somehwere don't ask her "where do you want to eat?" Women in general don't want to make the decisions all the time. So do that for her and decide for yourself.
While these 3 quick steps will help you A LOT you'll get even more mileage out of the book "How to become an alpha male" by John Alexander. Click here for a review of that book.