What Men Want No 71: A Woman Who Has PMS
What men want in their wives is a woman who has PMS.
That might seem a little bit sarcastic to you.
Don't all women have PMS? Isn't that a characteristic of women that actually tends to get on the nerves of their male partners? Believe it or not, as annoying as it can be when women hit that time of the month, there are several reasons that us guys actually need that sort of so-called "negative" emotion to not only live happily with you, but also to build up our marriage.
Still confused? Read on.
1.
We need chaos Have you ever heard of the term, "ordered chaos"? It's basically an oxymoron, a term that puts two supposedly conflicting ideas together to form something which is meant to have some sort of logical meaning.
There is ordered chaos in the fact that we need something like that time of the month for women to throw us off our usual routine.
Women do tend to get emotional during that time and us guys have to be aware of the temporary changes in the woman if we wish to get along with them.
2.
How To Use PMS To Strengthen Your Relationship This is where it gets fun.
This is a technique that my wife uses on me to actually strengthen our marriage.
So, depending on the woman, there are a wide variety of emotions they can experience when it's that time of the month.
Usually, men learn (the hard way) that the best thing to do when it's that time of the month for women is just to leave them alone.
Don't do this.
Really make the most of the situation by seeing how responsive your man is to you.
3.
What else can he do for you? Sometimes, women have the cramps that render them unable to do much besides take it easy until they subside.
This is where men have to come in and help out.
It's also a good time to test out how much he will do for you.
I'm not telling you to use your PMS to trick him into doing more stuff for you, but I have personally found that I've been actually getting along better with my wife when she has PMS, simply because doing more things for her allows me to spend more time around her during this period (pun intended), meaning I'm more aware of what she's feeling.
What men want is a woman who knows how to use their PMS to their advantage.
Instead of driving your man away, by asking him to help you out, he will get used to your emotional range.
That might seem a little bit sarcastic to you.
Don't all women have PMS? Isn't that a characteristic of women that actually tends to get on the nerves of their male partners? Believe it or not, as annoying as it can be when women hit that time of the month, there are several reasons that us guys actually need that sort of so-called "negative" emotion to not only live happily with you, but also to build up our marriage.
Still confused? Read on.
1.
We need chaos Have you ever heard of the term, "ordered chaos"? It's basically an oxymoron, a term that puts two supposedly conflicting ideas together to form something which is meant to have some sort of logical meaning.
There is ordered chaos in the fact that we need something like that time of the month for women to throw us off our usual routine.
Women do tend to get emotional during that time and us guys have to be aware of the temporary changes in the woman if we wish to get along with them.
2.
How To Use PMS To Strengthen Your Relationship This is where it gets fun.
This is a technique that my wife uses on me to actually strengthen our marriage.
So, depending on the woman, there are a wide variety of emotions they can experience when it's that time of the month.
Usually, men learn (the hard way) that the best thing to do when it's that time of the month for women is just to leave them alone.
Don't do this.
Really make the most of the situation by seeing how responsive your man is to you.
3.
What else can he do for you? Sometimes, women have the cramps that render them unable to do much besides take it easy until they subside.
This is where men have to come in and help out.
It's also a good time to test out how much he will do for you.
I'm not telling you to use your PMS to trick him into doing more stuff for you, but I have personally found that I've been actually getting along better with my wife when she has PMS, simply because doing more things for her allows me to spend more time around her during this period (pun intended), meaning I'm more aware of what she's feeling.
What men want is a woman who knows how to use their PMS to their advantage.
Instead of driving your man away, by asking him to help you out, he will get used to your emotional range.