Secrets To Win Back Your Ex-girlfriend - 3 Things That You Might Not Know That Will Win Her Back
There are always little secrets, things that most people don't know off hand that will get them what they want a little bit quicker, and a little easier. Some guys seem to have a secret with women that allows them to end up getting dumped, but then having her come right back to them, and sometimes they are totally to blame for everything. Still, the woman ends up coming back to them, so what do they know that you do not?
Here are 3 secrets to win back your girlfriend that will make her want to come back to you:
1. You really have to act like it does not bother you one bit.
Most guys will assume that in order to win back their ex girlfriend, they have to "show" her just how much it is tearing them up, and that will be the game changer that makes her come crawling back to them. Truth is, it will probably do you worse to get all upset and worked up about the breakup. It makes you seem a little too emotional for a guy, a little too needy, and that will make your ex girlfriend feel turned off. You want to turn her on, not turn her off, am I right?
2. You must be willing to break off all contact for a little while.
That midnight phone call is NOT going to make her say to herself, "I guess he really does care about me." No, it is going to get her wound up and make her feel as though you will not leave her alone. And when she feels like this, she is going to end up just feeling as though it is not worth it to go through all of the hassle. She will be the one that breaks off the contact with you, and that is not a step in the right direction.
3. You have to be willing to get a little "dirty."
I don't know the exact reasoning for this, but when a guy gets dumped, he automatically wants to turn into the sweetest guy in the world and he kind of puts his ex girlfriend on a pedestal where she is perfect and she can do no wrong. So, of course, they are not really willing to do what works to provoke her emotions the right way. You have to break free from that line of thinking, and realize, if it works, it works.
Here are 3 secrets to win back your girlfriend that will make her want to come back to you:
1. You really have to act like it does not bother you one bit.
Most guys will assume that in order to win back their ex girlfriend, they have to "show" her just how much it is tearing them up, and that will be the game changer that makes her come crawling back to them. Truth is, it will probably do you worse to get all upset and worked up about the breakup. It makes you seem a little too emotional for a guy, a little too needy, and that will make your ex girlfriend feel turned off. You want to turn her on, not turn her off, am I right?
2. You must be willing to break off all contact for a little while.
That midnight phone call is NOT going to make her say to herself, "I guess he really does care about me." No, it is going to get her wound up and make her feel as though you will not leave her alone. And when she feels like this, she is going to end up just feeling as though it is not worth it to go through all of the hassle. She will be the one that breaks off the contact with you, and that is not a step in the right direction.
3. You have to be willing to get a little "dirty."
I don't know the exact reasoning for this, but when a guy gets dumped, he automatically wants to turn into the sweetest guy in the world and he kind of puts his ex girlfriend on a pedestal where she is perfect and she can do no wrong. So, of course, they are not really willing to do what works to provoke her emotions the right way. You have to break free from that line of thinking, and realize, if it works, it works.