Having your marriage end suddenly when you do not want it to can be quite the stressful experience.
You may feel like the world is coming to an end and you may reminisce about the good times in your marriage; allowing you to become very emotional.
I have been there before and I know exactly how it feels, and how much the pressure can get to you.
Don't let this discourage you however.
Do your best to stay as positive as possible if you really want to save your marriage.
Too many people suffer from what they call the three D's - depression, desperation and devastation.
Allowing this to affect you can be dangerous to your marriage as nothing good can prevail from that kind of mindset.
Unfortunately, I have suffered from the three D's and went for some desperate measures to try to save my marriage.
My wife could tell I was trying too hard to save it when I began begging and pleading with her non-stop.
It only made me look pathetic and I could see my wife getting more and more fed up with me.
I was very lucky to be able to turn this situation around.
I was able to save my marriage when I realized what I was doing wrong.
The begging routine only made things worse and I understand why now.
These actions only make you look weak and undesirable because it shows that you are someone that is easy to have.
People always strive to get the things that they cannot easily have.
Remember this.
Once you recognize this and learn how to control your emotions effectively, you have made your first step in saving your marriage from ruins.
As long as you can quit the crying and pleading you will be able to take the next step of saving your marriage.