Going through a break up is a hard thing to do.
It takes a toll on your emotions and frequently makes it hard to think clearly.
This is because it is a painful part of your life and no one that is in pain thinks clearly.
The problem is that if you want to win your ex back then the last thing you should be doing is acting on your emotions.
Your emotions are your motivation for wanting your ex back but are more likely to hurt you than help you.
Your feelings are hurt.
You have been rejected.
Believe me I know that it is tough.
You may be having trouble sleeping and eating.
You might not even know where everything started going wrong.
Most of all you just want to fix it and get everything back to the way it was.
The problem is that if your emotions are in control then you are probably going to screw it up.
Maybe some of this will be familiar.
You have been calling and leaving messages but they are not getting returned.
When you do get a response then it is angry.
You just have to know what they are doing.
You feel jealous at even the thought of them talking to someone else.
You are constantly thinking about what you should have said last time you talked and what you will say the next time.
These are all good signs that you need to back off.
If you keep it up then you will ruin your chances.
You don't want to seem desperate and you don't want to seem pitiful.
These are bad things and you need to make sure that you get your emotions in check.
Apologizing over and over and begging are also extremely bad things to do.
These fall in to the pitiful category.
Not saying that if you did something wrong that you should not apologize, you should.
After you apologize then leave it alone though.
If they are legitimately mad at you for something then it is a mistake to remind them about it every time you speak.
Getting back together is a possibility though.
In fact it happens all of the time and you have seen it before.
How many couples can you think of that split up but before too long they were back together and as happy as ever.