How To Be A Flirty Friend
Every person is a flirt at some stage of their life.
The flash of eyes, smiling or coy.
That unspoken hint that there may be personal interest or mutually sharing a moment.
Friendship can be enhanced by being a flirty friend.
What is flirting? Flirting is a communication style that comes so naturally to some people and is a learned skill for others.
Don't despair if you are one of the latter.
Humorous or affectionate banter lightens the mood when spending time with friends.
Perhaps you are trying to attract the attention of someone on the other side of the room.
Allowing them the opportunity to see the lighter side of you and a hint of what other possibilities there may be.
What it is not Flirting involves different combinations of humorous banter, eye contact, body language and personal hygiene.
Why did I include the personal hygiene to the list? This is a most important item.
If your personal hygiene is not of the best quality then no matter how much effort you put into flirting it just wont work for you.
Sometimes the clothes we wear can absorb odors from our surroundings.
If the person you are with has become aware of an unpleasant odor coming from you or your clothes this can be very distracting.
If you are indoors then perhaps step outside into the fresh air to allow your clothes to freshen.
If a drink or food or other smelly item has been spilled on your clothes, excuse yourself and step into the rest room and wash the offending area.
Be quick about this as you don't want to lose the attention of your special friend.
Ready to roll Freshened up and ready to roll again you flash a winning smile from across the room as you approach.
This communicates that you are alright and on course to return to your friend.
Reassured that you are still interested your friend waits, smiling in return.
On return you pick up where you left off before the interruption.
Flirting is light-hearted playing.
This is a signal that the person would like the opportunity to get to know you better or is just enjoying the moment that they are sharing with you.
To flirt is a way of strutting your stuff but in a fun way without making any commitments.
Some people see flirting as a signal for something more serious.
This can be a misunderstanding and must be clarified before opening your mouth and putting your foot in it.
Bring some lightness of heart into your interactions and be a flirty friend.
The flash of eyes, smiling or coy.
That unspoken hint that there may be personal interest or mutually sharing a moment.
Friendship can be enhanced by being a flirty friend.
What is flirting? Flirting is a communication style that comes so naturally to some people and is a learned skill for others.
Don't despair if you are one of the latter.
Humorous or affectionate banter lightens the mood when spending time with friends.
Perhaps you are trying to attract the attention of someone on the other side of the room.
Allowing them the opportunity to see the lighter side of you and a hint of what other possibilities there may be.
What it is not Flirting involves different combinations of humorous banter, eye contact, body language and personal hygiene.
Why did I include the personal hygiene to the list? This is a most important item.
If your personal hygiene is not of the best quality then no matter how much effort you put into flirting it just wont work for you.
Sometimes the clothes we wear can absorb odors from our surroundings.
If the person you are with has become aware of an unpleasant odor coming from you or your clothes this can be very distracting.
If you are indoors then perhaps step outside into the fresh air to allow your clothes to freshen.
If a drink or food or other smelly item has been spilled on your clothes, excuse yourself and step into the rest room and wash the offending area.
Be quick about this as you don't want to lose the attention of your special friend.
Ready to roll Freshened up and ready to roll again you flash a winning smile from across the room as you approach.
This communicates that you are alright and on course to return to your friend.
Reassured that you are still interested your friend waits, smiling in return.
On return you pick up where you left off before the interruption.
Flirting is light-hearted playing.
This is a signal that the person would like the opportunity to get to know you better or is just enjoying the moment that they are sharing with you.
To flirt is a way of strutting your stuff but in a fun way without making any commitments.
Some people see flirting as a signal for something more serious.
This can be a misunderstanding and must be clarified before opening your mouth and putting your foot in it.
Bring some lightness of heart into your interactions and be a flirty friend.