The 5 Steps From Start to Finish - How You Are Going to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Today
There are a wide variety of reasons for him needing more space, including family problems, insecurities, or a phase that suddenly hits him that makes him petrified at the thought of commitment.
Here are some tips that has helped our clients a lot, answering how to get your boyfriend back if he confronted you with the "need more space" line.
Step 1) Give Him The Gift Of Missing You.
You clearly are still deeply in love with him, but making it obvious to him won't help now.
It's ideal to play hard to get for this first bit to show him that you can move on with your life just fine, it it him that is suffering the loss.
Step 2) Conversation In Small Amounts.
If you suspect that your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, it may be ideal to not cut off all communication completely.
As long as you keep it brief in order to avoid new drama, this can be very effective.
Short text messages, a quick phone call or simple online chat message to say hello are all great ways to keep him thinking about you all day long.
Best of all, it's still not enough to satisfy the sudden loneliness and he will start yearning for you very soon.
Step 3) He Starts Showing Interest Again.
Soon enough he will not be able to help himself and start reaching out to you again in a very obvious way.
Remember that you should only focus on all the good memories you share.
While chatting about "the good ol' times", be sure to never allow him or yourself to dwell on any negative experiences you had as this will undo all your hard work up to this point.
Step 4) Warming Up To Him Again.
If your subtle advances has so far gone unnoticed or left your ex boyfriend unaffected, it's time to reassess the situation.
Either he had completely made up his mind of moving on for now, or he honestly needs some space in which case you should give it to him.
Chances are great however that he is definitely starting to display interest in you again.
This should be your sign to keep advancing slowly.
Step 5) Take The Final Big Leap.
If your ex boyfriend has been displaying repeated interest in you, it's time for you to open up to him again.
Let him know how you feel about him while making sure you do not come across as desperate or needy.
This might be the last push he needs to finally open up to you and admit that he still desperately loves you.
Just keep in mind to never advance when he seems to be pulling back, rather pull back yourself as well to the previous step and try again.