All you can think about is finding out the best ways of winning your wife back. You've either broken up, or have gotten divorced. As time passes, you begin to realize that you just can't live without her. Many people that suffer through a break up won't even try to win their ex back. They may feel that their ex will just hurt them more by not talking to them. More often, though, they don't know what to say, and are afraid of saying the wrong thing. If you can relate to this, then read on...

Have you just separated?

If your relationship recently ended, be very careful. You are both hurting, and you are both still very emotional.

Both of you need some time to heal. This time is extremely important - without it, it will be very difficult to win her back.

You can't act without thinking. If you try to rush into things without letting the tension and bad feelings heal, the only thing you will succeed in doing is pushing her away even more.

Just think about it for a minute. Imagine walking up to her right now and talking to her. Imagine what she'd say to you. If her reaction isn't the one you had hoped for, what would you do?

Have you even thought about how you're going to get her back?

I'll bet the answer to this is no. Not too many people will think about what they will do or say, they just do it. There are many ways to win her back - and, IF you think about the 'what ifs' for a minute, your chances of success will skyrocket.

What would you do if...

You tell her that you love her, and that you blew it, and you want her back. She, in turn, says 'too bad'. What would you do? If you react badly to her response, you will regret it. IF, on the other hand, you are ready for her to say that, then you can respond to her in a way that will make her stop and think.

OR...

You tell her that you love her and want to try to make things work, and she says that she feels the same way? Would you just jump back into a relationship, or would you take things slow, and make sure that both of you take steps to not let your past problems ruin this new relationship?

There are many different things that can happen. There is one guaranteed way that you will succeed in winning your wife back - THINK about it before you DO it. You know her better than anyone, right? You know what she likes and dislikes, and how she reacts to different things.

Wait until the hurt subsides, then casually work your way back into her life. Winning your wife back will take some patience, but it will be very well worth it! Soon, the two of you will become friends again, and friendship is the base of every strong relationship.