The word lovemaking has in recent times been used as another word for sex.
The word lovemaking, here, defines it as a act of love.
That is sex you say, well yes but, it is in the intimacy of a loving relationship.
We encourage a loving relationship.
Learning lovemaking secrets will be so much more fulfilling if shared with the person you love.
Lovemaking is something that you get better at as time goes by.
To be better at it all you need is to know is some lovemaking secrets that will put you ahead of the game so you don't have to make embarrassing mistakes or you can fine tune what you have already mastered or maybe find new ways to please your partner.
There is nothing wrong with finding out what you need to know.
That's what this all is about, we want to tackle the subjects and issues that will help make your sex life great.
After all sex is one of the basic needs we all have no matter what your age, preference or beliefs? There is a lot of information and myths out there about sex and what men and women like.
How are you supposed to know what is right and what is just plain rubbish.
• There are sex manuals that cover all subjects to do with sex but lack the detail and you find yourself reading it again trying to find something you may have missed.
Books that reveal what the differences between men and women are but all they do is make you more confused than you were before you read it.
• If you can afford it or not too embarrassed is go and see a sex therapist that will take time as well.
Sex Manuals Most sex manuals are mostly geared toward the man's pleasure, can be hard to understand and usually have no moral standpoint.
All they do is give you the basics of a subject and some are too raunchy, can make suggestions that can be harmful to a relationship or marriage.
If you read the millions of manuals available today and then try making love as given in there, most likely you may fail.
This because they tell you how to make love but not how to enjoy the process of lovemaking.
Books about sex Most of these only cover a few subjects and mostly are geared toward pleasing the man and doesn't take into account the woman.
After a fair bit research most of these books are written by "sex experts, ex-strippers or ex-prostitutes.
As in the manuals the just focus on giving out the information with no moral standpoint.
Sex Therapy This can be costly and take a lot of time.
Some "sex therapists" sleep with their clients which in our opinion doesn't promote a healthy relationship.
In some cases it isn't sex that is the problem it's issues in the relationship that hasn't been dealt with and is affecting the person's sex life.
Points to look for in finding the right information • The information used should written by a reputable author.
• The content should value relationships.
• The author promotes mutual respect.
• The information should be presented in way that reader has the information and can make an informed choice.
• It needs to be able to link you to more information that gives you more detail.
• Straight forward and easy to understand.
• illustrations used should not be classed as pornographic