It gets proven to me time and time again that one of the main obstacles that men have when it comes to getting dates and getting better with women is the fact that your average guy doesn't really have much experience or skill when it comes to approaching women.
Don't feel bad if you are not the kind of guy who can just walk up to a woman and have an easy time getting her to talk and flirt with you.
I used to be TERRIBLE at it but now, it isn't that big of a deal.
The same can be true for you.
Here are some tips that might help you out if you want to make approaching women a little bit easier: 1.
Don't fear that a woman is going to act cold as ice if you approach her.
As long as you don't approach a woman like a total jerk, most women are not going to be cold as ice.
They may not be as receptive as you were hoping that they would be, but they are not going to just tear your heart out and stomp on it.
The idea that there is something to fear when it comes to approaching a woman is an irrational idea that seems to stick with most men.
You have to get rid of it.
2.
Approach her like you already know her.
Imagine that you saw a woman that you already knew a little bit.
Would you think twice about walking up to her or would you just go ahead and do it? A neat little trick that you can play on yourself is to act like you already know her a bit.
That makes things seem a lot easier when you are walking up to her and trying to start a conversation.
3.
Become a rapport builder.
Most guys strike out when they walk up to a woman because they are trying to get a number or a date as quickly as possible.
That doesn't work that well.
On the other hand, working on building rapport with a woman DOES work well.
Once she feels like there is rapport between you and her, you don't seem like a guy who just walked up to her.
You seem like a guy she met and clicked with right away.
It's much easier to get a date or a phone number when she feels that way.