If there is anybody who can feel the pain you're going through right now, it's me.
I've suffered through more breakups than I care to admit.
It isn't fun and it never gets any easier.
I only wish that I knew back then what I know now.
Yes, today, I am happily married with a wonderful daughter.
But it wasn't always great.
I had to go through a lot of growing pains.
I almost lost my wife many times.
But knowing what I know about relationships, I was able to keep it together.
I'm going to share some of what I know with you today.
These tips should have you on your way back to reconciling with your ex.
Right now, you're pretty messed up.
You're emotions are all over the place, you're crying and carrying on and you can't concentrate on anything else but the breakup.
Well, this is the first thing that has to change.
I know it's not easy, but you've got to pull yourself together.
You're not going to get your ex back in the state you're in now.
I am speaking from experience.
You have to be calm, cool and collected and present yourself to your ex in the best light.
Otherwise, you don't stand a chance.
Next thing you have to do is sit down and truly understand what went wrong.
That includes admitting your part in the breakup.
Like to admit it or not, relationships are a two way street and your ex didn't break up with you for no reason.
You need to understand what that reason was.
It's kind of like trying to fix a car that isn't starting anymore.
You can't fix it unless you know what the problem is.
Is it the battery, alternator, starter or the engine? It's the same thing with relationships.
Finally, when you do call your ex, you have to stay calm.
Ask your ex for a short get together over lunch or even over coffee.
Make it casual and not anything heavy.
At this meeting, you're going to admit the mistakes that you figured out in step two.
Admit them and ask for a second chance.
Don't beg.
And don't put any of the blame on your ex.
Take full responsibility.
This will take your ex by surprise and will work nine out of ten times.
If the for some reason this doesn't work, I've just stumbled on a great book that I wish had come out when I was younger.
It would have saved me a lot of grief.
Anyway, I read and reviewed it and you can read my review below.
I think you'll find it helpful.
You really CAN get your ex back.
All you need is a solid plan.
To YOUR Relationship Success, Martin J Waterson