It is believed that marriages are held in heaven.
This belief is widely accepted all over the world.
It is said that God has decided the partner for everyone and everything happens accordingly.
Today's world is proving that even God can be wrong.
Has this fast life influenced the mind of people? The main problem faced by each and every family in this era is divorce.
The life style has changed a lot and this even influenced the manners, behavior and even the thought process of common man.
Ancient world witnessed happy families with the echoes of laughter and joy.
Even when they had sorrows it was limited among them and they solved it within a short span of time.
Studies say that divorce rate has increased in this generation compared to that of the older ones.
There are several reasons for a couple to get separated.
In this era each individual is independent whether it be man or woman.
Both are given equal status in the society.
In most of the families both husband and wife will be earning, so they both won't be ready to compromise.
This is the case when they both will sign up for divorce.
The victim of this divorce is usually children.
If the couple has a kid then the court order might make psychological impact on the kid.
Children really suffer when their parents break the relation.
In most cases children will be angry on his/her parents getting divorced.
This will affect the future of children.
In some cases a child might be interested or wiling to stay with dad but might have to lead a life with mom after their separation and vice versa.
This will also create uneasiness in child.
Children need both mom's and dad's love.
When parents break up, children will lose the love that they already had.
They feel like their world has become empty.
This will create problems in children.
After divorce the mom or dad might get married to someone else and the child might find it difficult to accept this in their life.
Divorce rate is increasing day by day.
Before getting separated each parent should think about their child's future.
A child who saw the separation of his/her parents will live with that in mind which will create a future generation with no emotional attachment or value for life.
This can be avoided only by making couples aware about what is life.
Awareness classes should be held to make them understand what all obstacles they will have to face in life and what their parents and grand parents have gone through.
Each parent should make their children aware about life and its value.
Divorce affect child more than that of couples who get separated.
The decision of getting separated is been already made by couples before they get divorced but for a child this decision will be new and wont be able to face it.
So before taking harsh decision think well and then decide.
Some problems can be solved by us so in such case try doing it.
Children are valuable gift from God protect and don't shatter their dreams.