How to Talk to Christian Girls
- 1). Ensure you don't come on too strong. This is particularly important if you are talking to a Christian girl for romantic reasons and it should also be true for any other girl you chat with. Some men believe that relationships with girls can only be sexual. This is simply not the case, because many females look to men for friendship. You can show you're not coming on too strong by avoiding issues such as sex, attraction and dating. Talk instead about your likes and dislikes and try to establish some of the things you might have in common, such as your favorite films, music or hobbies.
- 2). Talk about your own understanding and/or respect for Christianity and God. Religious or not, a healthy conversation about the positives and negatives of religion and Christianity can paint you as somebody interested in the other person. Talk about your own experiences and how you interpret the Bible's teachings -- relate the topics to your personal life so you can reveal a little bit more about who you are each time you speak.
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According to studies, funnier guys come across as being more intelligent and honest.Jupiterimages/Photos.com/Getty Images
Make jokes and be outgoing. Like any other member of the opposite sex, Christian girls will warm to and feel comfortable around those who make them laugh. According to an article in the UK Daily Mail, psychologists believe that guys with a good sense of humor get the girls because they come across as more intelligent and honest. Tell some funny anecdotes from your own past or tell a few short jokes that you know. - 4). Talk to Christian girls with respect. Any member of the opposite sex will no doubt be deeply offended if you talk to them in a derogatory or offensive way. Girls like to feel that they are getting to know someone who shares their beliefs in the positive characteristics of Christianity, like kindness, concern and thoughtfulness. Express these by talking with politeness and proper manners -- ensure you say things like "thank you" and "please" and avoid confronting others aggressively over their views. In addition, ensure that you don't swear or use any curse words.
- 5). Listen to the girl as much as you speak. According to a GO Students article called "What Christian Girls Wish Guys Knew", being able to listen and not just talk is actually a very desirable characteristic in men. Guys are known for their tendency to fix problems, while girls often just need to talk about their feelings without coming to any conclusions or remedies. Christian girls are likely to warm to someone who is willing to listen and discuss their problems, and not necessarily jump right in and fix them. Additionally, the article states that the Bible encourages people to share each other's emotions as a sign of caring and respect.
