What Is The Reality Of Dowry?
Dowry is some type of payment, gifts, household items which is given by the parents of bride to boy's family. The real cause of giving dowry is that their daughter lived a happy life and she saved from every type of violence but they dont know they pulled their daugter into the life of violence & grief.
Dowry According To Religion:
Dowry is cultural not religious thing. We have no evidance in Quran & Sunnah that ALLAH gives any order to females. In islam, women don't buy & give any property during marriage. It is the responsibality of a man that he purchase all type of furniture & needs of house, not a women that she gives him anything. For the men, It would not be able lawful to force their brides to give something as dowry.
Our Muslims & Muslim's leader spread a wrong conception about dowry & they relate it with Holy Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) & they say that Our Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H) give some household items to their daughter Hazrat Fatima (R.A) whose married with Hazrat Ali (R.A). Yes I accepted but reality is not that the brasstacks is that Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H) was the curator of Hazrat Ali (R.A). One day Hazrat Ali (R.A) was weeping & Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H) asked him that why are you weeping then he said i have no elder brother then Holy Prophet(P.B.U.H) said now from today I am your elder brother. When Fatima (R.A) was married then Hazrat Ali (R.A) was very poor and he had no any household items then Holy Prophet(P.B.U.H) not give dowry just helped him as his younger brother. we should not forget that Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H) was also the curator of Hazrat Ali (R.A).
Historical Background Of Dowry:
The rulers of Mughlia were lesbians when they enter in subcontinent they did marriages in every religion. For saving the religious boundries & their daughters from Mughals. They started marriages in every sects of hinduism they did not see what their sect that they were poor or not. In poor families they give all types of household items that their daughter lived easily. the real cause of starting dowry is the bad habbit of lesbiality of Mughal Muslims rulers.
Dowry as Violence:
Dowry is the root cause of violence. The family of husband force bride to take money or different things from her family & she start to became the victom of different type of violence such as torture as physically & mentally, bride burning, murder or force her to commited suicide by their husband & their inlaws.
In the whole world, one women is murser at the name of dowry in every 20 minutes. Pakistan is at the 1st number of dowry violence, their are 100000 women are facing violence & 2000 women are murder every year at the name of dowry.
Solution:
Now we have information about the reality of dowry that what is the historical background of this culture & it should help to finish this bad custom & it is shame for all Muslims that they follow that custom which is started at the wrong habbits of lesbiality of muslims rulers. It is our duty that we spread right information through media & try to do seminars at every part of pakistan. One day we will succeed to finish this bad custom & we will save women from every type of violence.