Does the sound of your ex's answering machine haunt you at night because it is the closest thing to contact you have had in month? Does your ex run from you if you happen to wonder into the same social gathering or other common location? If you want them back in your life it is time to get serious, because obviously until you learn how to get your ex back even if they don't want to talk to you your chances are looking pretty slim.
So listen up and take a second to read over the following seven ways, they may just save your relationship! Stop chasing If your ex doesn't want to talk to you there is a solid chance that you may be coming on just a little too strong.
Lay low for awhile and let your ex start to miss you.
You have to be out of their life before they can realize just how much you meant to them! Rediscover your life Interesting people always appeal more than those who seem co-dependent.
A good way to make yourself part of the former is by taking the opportunity to rediscover your life.
Hang out with your single friends who you probably left behind and reconnect with the things you love in your life.
The more active you are then the more appealing you will become! Place your best foot forward This applies to every area of your life, so take the time to also think about what your ex used to like the best about you.
Once you place your finger on that make sure that you display it so that they will not miss it once you run into them! Alter your look Of course, first you have to make sure they notice you period, which is why the next step is altering your look so that you pack an effect.
Consider changing your hair, clothes, or maybe switching from glasses to contacts or vice versa.
Just make sure that whatever you do it will leave an impact! Flirt No matter what the terms of your breakup were no one likes to be the one who gets replaced first.
Show your ex that someone else may get you forever and you may make them rethink their idea that you would always be around in the back just in case.
Stay positive A positive attitude rubs off, so make sure that all of your comments toward your ex are always positive.
Not only will this confuse them, but it will also keep every thought they have of you pleasant and the more good things they have to think about you the better.
Wait! It may be hard, but sometimes waiting is the only thing that you can do.
So give it some time for your efforts to show through.
In the end you will get your payoff which should be quite handsome if your ex really is your soul mate!