Modern Man - How to Approach Women Without Coming Off As a Player
Knowing how to approach women without coming off as a player is one of the hardest parts of talking to women and meeting that someone special.
We all know there are players out there, both male and female; however, a good player knows how to approach women without revealing their true intent.
Players don't have a good name when it comes to the dating arena and women will try to avoid them with all their might.
This is the main reason if you are a player that you best have your game in check when approaching women.
Approaching women with too cocky of an attitude will exude player mentality and 9 times out of ten you will beshot down.
Knowing how to approach women is so important that last year men, in the hopes of learning how to approach women, spent multiple millions of dollars on various self help dating material.
Problem is, most dating material you find on the web or via any other avenue is full of a bunch of want to be dating guru's nonsense.
The so-called "tried and true" pick up lines used to approach women are the center of women's laugh sessions.
Yes, the women are laughing at you when you use these so called "winner lines".
They sit with their girlfriends and co-workers and often times other men and talk about you and how lame you really sounded.
Ditch the pick up lines unless you are excellent at taking a pick up line and turning it into a conversation starter.
Knowing that women already have a taboo attitude about players puts you at an advantage.
You know what not to do; now you only need to know how to approach a woman without coming off as a player.
First off, be a genuine gentleman.
Yes - that involves opening doors, extending courtesies, offering seats, and things like that.
But the term "gentleman" actually originates as a social status.
Gentlemen were men of a noble nature.
High moral actions define a gentleman more than any verbal claims made.
In addition, coming across too flashy is a red flag to women.
Keep your wardrobe current but not typical player "club attire".
Stay away from too much "bling bling" as it is another red flag.
Go easy on the come on line, which are different then pick up lines.
Come on lines are what are used after a conversation has begun with a woman.
You may have even shared a few drinks..
Come on lines are those "schmoozie" compliments about how wonderful the woman is, repeated compliments about looks, smell, etc.
Too many come on lines makes a woman feel uncomfortable and begins to sound insincere.
Move slow, unlike the player who wants to make a fast score, be genuine, and watch your lines and you will be able to approach any woman without coming off as a player even if you are!
We all know there are players out there, both male and female; however, a good player knows how to approach women without revealing their true intent.
Players don't have a good name when it comes to the dating arena and women will try to avoid them with all their might.
This is the main reason if you are a player that you best have your game in check when approaching women.
Approaching women with too cocky of an attitude will exude player mentality and 9 times out of ten you will beshot down.
Knowing how to approach women is so important that last year men, in the hopes of learning how to approach women, spent multiple millions of dollars on various self help dating material.
Problem is, most dating material you find on the web or via any other avenue is full of a bunch of want to be dating guru's nonsense.
The so-called "tried and true" pick up lines used to approach women are the center of women's laugh sessions.
Yes, the women are laughing at you when you use these so called "winner lines".
They sit with their girlfriends and co-workers and often times other men and talk about you and how lame you really sounded.
Ditch the pick up lines unless you are excellent at taking a pick up line and turning it into a conversation starter.
Knowing that women already have a taboo attitude about players puts you at an advantage.
You know what not to do; now you only need to know how to approach a woman without coming off as a player.
First off, be a genuine gentleman.
Yes - that involves opening doors, extending courtesies, offering seats, and things like that.
But the term "gentleman" actually originates as a social status.
Gentlemen were men of a noble nature.
High moral actions define a gentleman more than any verbal claims made.
In addition, coming across too flashy is a red flag to women.
Keep your wardrobe current but not typical player "club attire".
Stay away from too much "bling bling" as it is another red flag.
Go easy on the come on line, which are different then pick up lines.
Come on lines are what are used after a conversation has begun with a woman.
You may have even shared a few drinks..
Come on lines are those "schmoozie" compliments about how wonderful the woman is, repeated compliments about looks, smell, etc.
Too many come on lines makes a woman feel uncomfortable and begins to sound insincere.
Move slow, unlike the player who wants to make a fast score, be genuine, and watch your lines and you will be able to approach any woman without coming off as a player even if you are!