It takes so much emotion, commitment and effort to nurture and sustain a relationship.
Yet, there are times when in spite of everything you break up.
It is heartbreaking and for a long time you feel lost when this happens.
However, this is not the worst.
The worst is when you realize that you still have strong feelings for him and do not know how to get him back.
It is difficult for a woman to woo back her ex, because the roles are somewhat reversed and both feel awkward about it.
However, there are ways to do this with flair and enjoy great results, too.
1.
You want him back, say so - men are slow in taking hints.
Some never understand the concept of hinting and a lot of effort and time is lost in the process.
You want him back; tell him to his face in so many words.
In 9 out of 10 cases he would be thrilled with the proposition.
2.
Stay close to him - do not let him get you out of your system.
Stay within the radius of his movements so he could see you and think of you all the time.
Whenever you see him, behave in a friendly and dignified manner.
3.
Stay close to his dear ones - befriend his family and friends and be as nice to them as can possibly be.
Very often a recommendation from his mother or close friends would tilt the balance in your favor.
Even if they do not recommend you directly, just saying that you are a great girl would help plenty.
4.
Invite him to start from scratch - forget about love and relationship (for the time being).
Just ask him to be your friend.
Friendship is an easier platform to start from and it come easy with your ex.
5.
Start negotiations - it sounds a little mercenary, but it is not.
Start dialoguing with him and find out what went wrong in your relationship.
Pay attention to both sides - yours and his - or the relationship will dwindle into nothing again.
Negotiate with him what you can learn to live with and where he could be more tolerant.
Your aim should be to find that middle path where both are as comfortable as can be.
6.
Go slow - do not hurry things along.
Be prepared to move with the flow.
Sometimes he would be really shy from committing again to a relationship after going through a breakup.
Fast forwarding things would cause panic feelings in him.
7.
Show him how wonderful you are - be at your charming best when you speak to him.
Let him remember what a great gal you are and what he stand to lose.