One question that probably bugs the mind of many people who have just gone through a break up is this, "Should I woo my ex back? Or should I just let go of the relationship?" Well, this may seem like a simple question but the answer isn't and shouldn't be that straight forward.
In fact, before coming up with an answer, you should first give yourself a period of time to heal your emotional wound.
Chances are, if you have just broken up, you are just too confused now to come up with any meaningful answer.
So, in the mean time, it is best to cut off all contact with your in order to allow the healing to take place.
Now, once you get yourself out of the relationship, you will have a clearer mind and be able to analyze your relationship with a clearer mind.
This will enable to you come up with a better decision.
Here are a few questions you might want to ask yourself.
(Note: This article assumes that no marriage or kids are involved.
Issues that involve marriage and kids are more complicated and require a separate article.
) 1)Is there any abuse in the relationship? 2)Any infidelity involved? If your answer is yes, you probably want to think twice about going back to the relationship.
There is always the possibility that you think your ex will change for the better.
But the truth is, you cannot expect someone else to change as you will most probably be disappointed instead.
The next set of questions you want to ask yourself is whether you still love your ex and whether you think getting back together is going to be beneficial for both of you.
If your answer is yes, then you will want to give it a try.