How to get what you want from a man

How to get what you want from a man? That's a question a lot of women out there are asking themselves and are seeking an answer too. There's is two different answers to this question depending on what you actually want from the situation. Do you want to get what you want from a man relationship wise, getting the respect and love you desire? or do you simply want to get what you want from him and empty his pockets? I'm going to talk about the first one.

As a girl in my late twenties I have been through my fair share of relationships, I've meet some guys I couldn't stand, and some I liked very much. I started to see that even the men I really liked and had a lot of things I desired, lacked some of the basic things I really wanted, there were some things that just wasn't there. So I started to ask myself the question, How to get what you want from a man?

To get my answer I started to figure out what I really wanted, and if it was something I could really demand out of him. Turns out it doesn't take more than a couple of minutes for a girl to come up with a few fundamental things she really wants, but what now?

I was a very shy girl back then and it was very hard for me to stand up and just say what I wanted from him, and is that really the way to go anyway? Who really am I to demand something from him? There were a lot of issues and insecurities I needed to take care of if I was going to make this work. After sometime I started to wonder why I don't already had what I wanted in this relationship, why couldn't I just have what I wanted? I sadly found out that it wasn't that easy.

I came up with the conclusion that one of the major reasons I don't have what I seek is that he doesn't even know. He don't because I haven't communicated my needs to him correctly, I didn't really understand men back then and my attempts to try get him to understand was just some girlie signs or hints that men doesn't tend to understand anyways.

In my life there's one thing that I found out that's most certainly true, men and women don't think or function the same. You can waste a lot of time being angry and pissed off in a relationship because you don't seem to get you what you want from him, but all the time the whole problem can be you not getting through to him, or your "manly communication skills". He's not always trying to defy you or being lazy, sometimes he just doesn't understand what you want or need because you haven't showed him in a way he understands.

Pretty much every man out there wants to please his women, a lot of the times he doesn't just know how. Show him that it's worth changing for you and be the man you desire, in some ways ultimately that may mean changing yourself in some areas by taking action and learning how to communicate better. Every girl out should be able to communicate better with the men, it's better for everybody and that is what get you what you want. If you want to reach your relationship goals, want to empty his pockets, or make him a better person, there are ways to learn

I believe you found this article because you really want to change this in your life and finding a final answer to this question. If you want to know more about how to get what you want from a man I recommend you learn where I learned it and check out the website MenMadeEasy which is a website dedicated to women seeking guidance and want to learn understand men. It's written by a women named Kara who been through a lot in her relationships with men and she can most likely help much more than I ever will