How to Tell If He Really Loves You - Seeing Into the Hearts of Men
Are you able to tell if he really loves you? Does your guy tell you he loves you, but you don't know whether or not to believe him? Are you afraid that your guy might be lying when he tells you he loves you? Would you like to save yourself from the heartbreak of finding out you've just been used? Love is a battlefield, so in order to survive you need a good supply of weapons.
These three simple tests will tear right into the heart of a man and let you tell if he really loves you or if he's just been lying to get something he wants.
1) Ask him for advice.
The next time you have an important decision to make, ask your man what you should do.
It's important that you're looking for advice on a real problem and not something meaningless like what dress you should wear.
Make sure you phrase the question exactly this way: "What should I do?" How does he respond? Does he tell you what he would do, or does he try to come up with a suggestion that would actually work best for you? If he really loves you, he'll be more concerned about finding a solution that works best in your interest, not just one that would work best if he was in your shoes.
2) Seek him out for support.
The next time you have a really bad day, or even a bad week or month, go to him for comfort.
Ask him to sit with you or hold you.
Does he try to comfort you or does he ignore you and keep doing what he wants to do? A man who truly loves you will be there for you in both good times and bad.
If someone wrongs you, he'll take your side in an argument.
The way he treats you in your times of strife is a good way to tell if he really loves you.
3) Make him commit to you.
The biggest expression of a man's feelings for you is an exclusive commitment to you.
A man with only mild feelings will probably continue to date other women.
If he feels like commitment would be a burden on his freedom, he probably doesn't feel too strongly about you.
But when a man accepts no other woman into his life, chances are he's in love with you.
The exclusivity of your relationship will always be the best way to tell if he really loves you.
These three simple tests will tear right into the heart of a man and let you tell if he really loves you or if he's just been lying to get something he wants.
1) Ask him for advice.
The next time you have an important decision to make, ask your man what you should do.
It's important that you're looking for advice on a real problem and not something meaningless like what dress you should wear.
Make sure you phrase the question exactly this way: "What should I do?" How does he respond? Does he tell you what he would do, or does he try to come up with a suggestion that would actually work best for you? If he really loves you, he'll be more concerned about finding a solution that works best in your interest, not just one that would work best if he was in your shoes.
2) Seek him out for support.
The next time you have a really bad day, or even a bad week or month, go to him for comfort.
Ask him to sit with you or hold you.
Does he try to comfort you or does he ignore you and keep doing what he wants to do? A man who truly loves you will be there for you in both good times and bad.
If someone wrongs you, he'll take your side in an argument.
The way he treats you in your times of strife is a good way to tell if he really loves you.
3) Make him commit to you.
The biggest expression of a man's feelings for you is an exclusive commitment to you.
A man with only mild feelings will probably continue to date other women.
If he feels like commitment would be a burden on his freedom, he probably doesn't feel too strongly about you.
But when a man accepts no other woman into his life, chances are he's in love with you.
The exclusivity of your relationship will always be the best way to tell if he really loves you.