Most partners don't realize just how strong your emotions are one for another until a break up occurs and if this is your case I'm sure you want to get back with your ex no matter what it takes.
If you are separated from the love of your life, you will most probably want to get back with your ex as soon as possible.
Don't let your past mistakes get in your way of achieving happiness.
You will be glad to know that reconciliation is possible for the majority of people who separate.
However, there must exist a strong will to re-conciliate followed by some infallible tactics.
Obviously, this is time consuming.
Depending on the effort put into the reconciliation and the intensity of your situation, you will get back with your ex sooner or later.
It may take more time to get back together if your relationship is more complicated.
If there is little chaos in the relationship, there is a greater chance for a quick reconciliation.
As a rule of thumb, before you can get back with your ex, one must get over the separation first, this only means you have to become more confident and relaxed.
You need (usually around one month) for you to accept your separation.
This is normally a period of reflection without any type of contact with the ex.
During this reflection period, you must ask yourself what was the cause of your separation and see how you could make amends so you can get back with your ex.
Of course, whenever there is love involved, you will also find forgiveness.
This is particularly important in a romantic relationship.
Whether you were responsible for the separation or not, you must have the capacity of forgiveness for yourself and others.