Tinder Dating Tips For The Shy Guy
The following Tinder dating tips for the shy guy will help you stand out in a crowd, even if you're the type who would rather hide.
If you haven't already experienced the thrill of Tinder dating, you're in for a treat. Unlike typical dating sites, which usually sort potential matches by age, income and age preferences, and what you are seeking in a partner, Tinder keeps it real and just goes for the looks.
This is how Tinder works, in a nutshell. You sign up and select six photos that you want to display on your profile. You are identified to other potential Tinder dating mates by location only. Once others sign in, they swipe all of the guys they think are hot. With the slip of a finger, you are labeled HOT or NOT. (Ouch!)
The good news is that someone will inevitably think you're hot, especially if you follow my tips for selecting profile photos that help you look your best. Once you start skimming your potential mates, if you swipe a HOT for that same girl, you guys get connected, and the chatting can begin.
These Tinder dating tips for the shy guy will provide help in any desperate situation. You came. You saw. Your conquered. And now you have to talk. Let's do this.
1. Guys are supposed to take control. Sure, not every girl will want this. However, most appreciate and expect it. So once that connection is made you need to stay cool as a cucumber and reach out to start that conversation. Do you know that most Tinder matches never even meet up? How is that for a fail? Don't let this happen to you. Strike while the iron is hot, and engage her interest with some pleasant conversation.
2. Less is more. To avoid sounding nervous or desperate, avoid saying things like "You're so hot. Want to get together?" Instead, be friendly. "Nice to meet you. My name is Tom. We live pretty close to one another. Do you want to grab a cup of coffee and meet up?", etc...
3. Don't bomb on the first date. Now that you have a date arranged, this is the most important Tinder dating tip for the shy guy. Do NOT ramble on about things. Ask HER questions. In fact, put her in the hot seat and just let her talk. Unless you are asked a question, it is totally OK to play it cool, and INTERESTED in her. This is where being shy can really pay off. She'll think it's really your aura of mystery, even though you are secretly desperate for any icebreaker.
4. Be a gentleman. Actions speak, when words fail you. Open doors. Pull out her chair. Offer to walk your Tinder dream girl back to her car.
Ideally, you met your Tinder match. Perhaps it will be long term, maybe just a one night thing. But this is for certain…even a shy guy can make a big impression on his first Tinder date. She already thinks you're attractive…the rest is a piece of cake. Get the TinderGuru guide for your piece of the pie!
If you haven't already experienced the thrill of Tinder dating, you're in for a treat. Unlike typical dating sites, which usually sort potential matches by age, income and age preferences, and what you are seeking in a partner, Tinder keeps it real and just goes for the looks.
This is how Tinder works, in a nutshell. You sign up and select six photos that you want to display on your profile. You are identified to other potential Tinder dating mates by location only. Once others sign in, they swipe all of the guys they think are hot. With the slip of a finger, you are labeled HOT or NOT. (Ouch!)
The good news is that someone will inevitably think you're hot, especially if you follow my tips for selecting profile photos that help you look your best. Once you start skimming your potential mates, if you swipe a HOT for that same girl, you guys get connected, and the chatting can begin.
These Tinder dating tips for the shy guy will provide help in any desperate situation. You came. You saw. Your conquered. And now you have to talk. Let's do this.
1. Guys are supposed to take control. Sure, not every girl will want this. However, most appreciate and expect it. So once that connection is made you need to stay cool as a cucumber and reach out to start that conversation. Do you know that most Tinder matches never even meet up? How is that for a fail? Don't let this happen to you. Strike while the iron is hot, and engage her interest with some pleasant conversation.
2. Less is more. To avoid sounding nervous or desperate, avoid saying things like "You're so hot. Want to get together?" Instead, be friendly. "Nice to meet you. My name is Tom. We live pretty close to one another. Do you want to grab a cup of coffee and meet up?", etc...
3. Don't bomb on the first date. Now that you have a date arranged, this is the most important Tinder dating tip for the shy guy. Do NOT ramble on about things. Ask HER questions. In fact, put her in the hot seat and just let her talk. Unless you are asked a question, it is totally OK to play it cool, and INTERESTED in her. This is where being shy can really pay off. She'll think it's really your aura of mystery, even though you are secretly desperate for any icebreaker.
4. Be a gentleman. Actions speak, when words fail you. Open doors. Pull out her chair. Offer to walk your Tinder dream girl back to her car.
Ideally, you met your Tinder match. Perhaps it will be long term, maybe just a one night thing. But this is for certain…even a shy guy can make a big impression on his first Tinder date. She already thinks you're attractive…the rest is a piece of cake. Get the TinderGuru guide for your piece of the pie!