Summary: A condolence letter can help pass some positive message to the bereaved.
The condolence letter should be short.
The condolence letter should be handwritten.
When a friend is grieving as a result of a loss of a loved one, it would be important that you empathize with him or her through sending a condolence letter.
The level of isolation that a grieving person goes through id terrible hence you should strive to reduce the loneliness through a comforting message which will encourage the concerned person.
Since a letter is not easily destroyed, the same person can go over it when the grieving is over and this simple gesture could go a long way in cementing your relationship.
Writing a letter of condolence should not be an arduous task.
With the right materials in place-a pen, paper, envelope and postage stamp, you are free to start.
A good letter is short and having it handwritten will add a personal touch.
Do not have it computer typed.
Reminding the recipient of the letter some events before the death of the loved one will add some more pain, so keep away from these.
Sharing the positive contributions of the deceased person would help show appreciation hence have a mention of it.
It's imperative that you do not mention about anything that directly or indirectly touches on yourself.
Use strong comforting words that the mourning person can identify with.
It's wise if you can indicate that you share in the deep pain and sorrow that was occasioned by the death of the loved person.
Accompanying the letter of condolence is an offer that you can be of help in any way that the mourning person would suggest.
Do not be specific, make it open such that the person grieving can feel free to request for help whenever there is need.
A condolence letter can make a huge difference when written well.
You need to be focused while writing it; it should show that you are very sympathetic to the person bereaved.