Throw Away Marriage - When You Shouldn"t Take Out the Trash
We live in a throw away society.
Your TV breaks so you put it out with the trash and buy a new one.
You reason that it will cost just as much to get a new one as it will to fix the old one so why not just upgrade to a better model.
Sound familiar? Everyday across the world the same thing is happening in our marriages.
We start having problems and instead of investing the time and effort to fix it, we throw it away.
We mistakingly believe that marriage is supposed to be easy.
Where in the world did we get that notion? Marriage isn't easy.
In fact, it's one of the most difficult relationship to sustain.
It takes daily effort to have a good marriage, without the effort your marriage will fall apart and you end up feeling as though there is no way out.
We end up jumping ship with the false belief that we can get it right next time because our partner was the problem.
However; because you're at least half the problem you will bring baggage into your next relationship, making it even harder.
Why not fully invest in the relationship you have? Dare to put yourself on the line and be vulnerable.
Give yourself totally to your spouse and then watch in amazement at how more willing the two of you become to make your marriage be the best it can be.
I'm fully aware of the fact that your spouse may have caused you terrible pain with his actions.
You're afraid of opening back up because you're terrified of feeling that pain all over again.
You have to eventually open up in order to move past the hurts so why not start now? Have confidence in the fact that you can handle the pain if it does happen again.
Your TV breaks so you put it out with the trash and buy a new one.
You reason that it will cost just as much to get a new one as it will to fix the old one so why not just upgrade to a better model.
Sound familiar? Everyday across the world the same thing is happening in our marriages.
We start having problems and instead of investing the time and effort to fix it, we throw it away.
We mistakingly believe that marriage is supposed to be easy.
Where in the world did we get that notion? Marriage isn't easy.
In fact, it's one of the most difficult relationship to sustain.
It takes daily effort to have a good marriage, without the effort your marriage will fall apart and you end up feeling as though there is no way out.
We end up jumping ship with the false belief that we can get it right next time because our partner was the problem.
However; because you're at least half the problem you will bring baggage into your next relationship, making it even harder.
Why not fully invest in the relationship you have? Dare to put yourself on the line and be vulnerable.
Give yourself totally to your spouse and then watch in amazement at how more willing the two of you become to make your marriage be the best it can be.
I'm fully aware of the fact that your spouse may have caused you terrible pain with his actions.
You're afraid of opening back up because you're terrified of feeling that pain all over again.
You have to eventually open up in order to move past the hurts so why not start now? Have confidence in the fact that you can handle the pain if it does happen again.