What do girls really want and how do I attract the girl of my dreams? These questions can take years to figure out and the answers may seem illogical at first.
What seems natural and logical to guys may not be what really attracts girls, in fact it might put them off.
When I first started dating I made the classic mistake of telling the girl I had a crush on that I liked her.
I was polite and tried to do everything I could to be nice to her.
I thought acting like this would be enough to make her fall in love with me.
How wrong I was.
Letting a girl know that you like her is not going to change the way she feels about you.
This kind of talk should be reserved till much later in the relationship, when you are already dating.
Doing everything you can for her and being super polite is going to communicate to her that you don't really know what she wants and that you are just overcompensating.
The term is 'being nice'.
The woman will say 'He's a nice guy, but it will never go anywhere.
' There's no chemistry.
It happens all the time and a lot of women get annoyed at guys who consistently try to bug them for attention without really understanding what is going to bring about emotional attraction.
A woman wants to have fun, to laugh and to find a bit of mystery in the relationship.
A 'do anything for her' kind of attitude will make the girl think you are a nice guy but possibly a bit of a bore or not very interesting.
You will improve your chances greatly if you start doing this one thing.
Show her that your life is interesting.
Rather than being nice in the hopes she will like you, attract her by the strength of your character, your joy and your love for life.