First Date Material - What to Do and What Not to Do
Do you want to really know what's going on inside a man's head and heart? Are you curious as to what will send them into a fit of rage and what will make them weak in the knees? Are you wondering whether you're the type of woman who can really attract and satisfy the man you want? You absolutely are! You just need to learn a few secrets to have men falling at your feet asking you out, and they may not be what you think! Your character and personality are first and foremost.
You might think that your appearance, your hair, the size of your breasts or the length of your legs is more important, but that's not even close to true.
While physical attraction will initially interest us in one another, it is a fleeting and shallow connection that will fade quickly.
You need to know yourself and be proud of who that person is.
Be opinionated.
Be interesting.
Have hobbies and friends and interests that you can talk about.
If you can hold a conversation with a man, he is a lot more likely to want to spend time with you! Listen to him when he speaks and offer your insights or opinions when the opportunity arises.
Most guys don't want just another piece of arm candy, they want a partner with whom they can connect on a deeper level.
Another tip is to be wary of who you spend your time with.
Don't take just any date because a guy asks you out.
If you don't see yourself being interested in him off the bat, perhaps it's a good idea to wait it out and see if something better comes along.
Don't date just to date.
You don't need a relationship, you want a relationship that is good for you.
Don't waste your time and energy on guys with whom you have nothing in common and little attraction just because you're worried nothing better will come along.
When you do have the guy who interests you ask you out, don't pressure him into a relationship right away.
Don't force the issue of exclusivity and don't start planning your wedding on the first date! Not only will this scare him off, it will stop you both from enjoying the moment.
And those first date moments are some of the best in any relationship.
Sit back and enjoy the ride -- he'll respect you for it and you'll both have a much better time!
You might think that your appearance, your hair, the size of your breasts or the length of your legs is more important, but that's not even close to true.
While physical attraction will initially interest us in one another, it is a fleeting and shallow connection that will fade quickly.
You need to know yourself and be proud of who that person is.
Be opinionated.
Be interesting.
Have hobbies and friends and interests that you can talk about.
If you can hold a conversation with a man, he is a lot more likely to want to spend time with you! Listen to him when he speaks and offer your insights or opinions when the opportunity arises.
Most guys don't want just another piece of arm candy, they want a partner with whom they can connect on a deeper level.
Another tip is to be wary of who you spend your time with.
Don't take just any date because a guy asks you out.
If you don't see yourself being interested in him off the bat, perhaps it's a good idea to wait it out and see if something better comes along.
Don't date just to date.
You don't need a relationship, you want a relationship that is good for you.
Don't waste your time and energy on guys with whom you have nothing in common and little attraction just because you're worried nothing better will come along.
When you do have the guy who interests you ask you out, don't pressure him into a relationship right away.
Don't force the issue of exclusivity and don't start planning your wedding on the first date! Not only will this scare him off, it will stop you both from enjoying the moment.
And those first date moments are some of the best in any relationship.
Sit back and enjoy the ride -- he'll respect you for it and you'll both have a much better time!