The EASIEST Way To Start A Conversation With A Girl You"re Attracted To
Every guy knows this feeling.
I know you do too.
You know the one I'm talking about..
..
When you see a hot girl that you want to talk to; she's stunning...
Long flowing hair...
she passes you by, and her intoxicating perfume is still lingering in the air, making you light headed.
As she walks away, a little voice says, "Go talk to her - she's hot!" You make up your mind that you're going to say hi, but as soon as you try to move one step forward, your whole body tenses up.
Your feet get heavy like cinder blocks...
and the other voice starts...
"You can't talk to that girl...
She's way too hot for you...
" And it gets louder and louder until that girl is gone, and you're left with that cold, dry feeling, of not knowing how to pick up women! You might not realize this...
but every guy has this feeling...
why? Because as men, we've evolved to feel this way...
There was a time in your ancestors' past, when talking to a hot girl was risky business.
When we lived in tribes of 100 or less, there used to be only 3 or 4 girls in the whole tribe that might be a good match for you...
all of the others were either too young, or too old.
In those days, if you were rejected by a girl that you liked, the best case scenario: you would go the rest of your life NOT GETTING LAID! The worst case scenario: her angry caveman boyfriend would get all of his buddies, and smash your head with a rock...
OUCH...
Let's just say the options were a bit grim.
You may not have realized it, but the reason we are so afraid to approach girls, is because it makes very good sense from an evolutionary perspective! We still have this fear inside of us.
We still act like talking to a girl is a life or death matter...
But luckily, there are a few very clever ways to talk to new girls all the time without risking rejection.
The best way is to approach her, and ask her opinion about something neutral.
This way, you haven't hit on her, so she cannot reject you, but also you can start a conversation with her and give her the chance to like you! Good conversation starting topics are non sexual, non creepy, fun, maybe have an element of mystery or drama.
My favourite conversation starting topic is relationships, because it has all of those.
The next time you're in the cafeteria, or the library or anywhere like that, do this: Walk up to her.
Tap her lightly on the shoulder Say, "Hey, Can I get your opinion on...
(some controversial relationship topic..
) Voilà, you have a fun conversation started with a hot girl.
So some good opening lines could include: Hey, can I ask your opinion, which sex is smarter? ...
do you think I should quit talking to my ex girlfriend if I have a new one? ...
after you break up with someone, when is a good time to start seeing other people? Try this one.
Think of a good opening line, rehearse it in your head, and then try it out on the first girl you see after you're finished reading this.
I know you do too.
You know the one I'm talking about..
..
When you see a hot girl that you want to talk to; she's stunning...
Long flowing hair...
she passes you by, and her intoxicating perfume is still lingering in the air, making you light headed.
As she walks away, a little voice says, "Go talk to her - she's hot!" You make up your mind that you're going to say hi, but as soon as you try to move one step forward, your whole body tenses up.
Your feet get heavy like cinder blocks...
and the other voice starts...
"You can't talk to that girl...
She's way too hot for you...
" And it gets louder and louder until that girl is gone, and you're left with that cold, dry feeling, of not knowing how to pick up women! You might not realize this...
but every guy has this feeling...
why? Because as men, we've evolved to feel this way...
There was a time in your ancestors' past, when talking to a hot girl was risky business.
When we lived in tribes of 100 or less, there used to be only 3 or 4 girls in the whole tribe that might be a good match for you...
all of the others were either too young, or too old.
In those days, if you were rejected by a girl that you liked, the best case scenario: you would go the rest of your life NOT GETTING LAID! The worst case scenario: her angry caveman boyfriend would get all of his buddies, and smash your head with a rock...
OUCH...
Let's just say the options were a bit grim.
You may not have realized it, but the reason we are so afraid to approach girls, is because it makes very good sense from an evolutionary perspective! We still have this fear inside of us.
We still act like talking to a girl is a life or death matter...
But luckily, there are a few very clever ways to talk to new girls all the time without risking rejection.
The best way is to approach her, and ask her opinion about something neutral.
This way, you haven't hit on her, so she cannot reject you, but also you can start a conversation with her and give her the chance to like you! Good conversation starting topics are non sexual, non creepy, fun, maybe have an element of mystery or drama.
My favourite conversation starting topic is relationships, because it has all of those.
The next time you're in the cafeteria, or the library or anywhere like that, do this: Walk up to her.
Tap her lightly on the shoulder Say, "Hey, Can I get your opinion on...
(some controversial relationship topic..
) Voilà, you have a fun conversation started with a hot girl.
So some good opening lines could include: Hey, can I ask your opinion, which sex is smarter? ...
do you think I should quit talking to my ex girlfriend if I have a new one? ...
after you break up with someone, when is a good time to start seeing other people? Try this one.
Think of a good opening line, rehearse it in your head, and then try it out on the first girl you see after you're finished reading this.