How to Make Your Ex Think You Are Over Them
There is nothing more annoying and irritating than an ex who thinks that you are not over them.
And it's even worse when you know that they are right.
When you break up you want your ex to know that, yes he broke your heart but you have moved on.
There is just a feeling of victory (or is it satisfaction) when he believes that you are over him.
It makes you feel somewhat justified for how things turned out between the two of you; doesn't it? But what if you are not over your ex? How do you make your ex think that you are over them even when you are not? Fill in the empty time with something that captivates you! To make your ex think that you are over them you need to get busy and fill in the time that you used to spend with him.
Is there something you have always wanted to do but never had the time or the motivation to do it? Then this is the time to pursue that interest.
The more the activity captivates your interest and emotions the better it is for you as it will begin to displace your ex as the thing that holds all your interest.
He will think you are over him and gradually with time you will be over him.
Get involved in a physical demanding activity.
You want to use up your energy in activities so that you don't hang around the house or mall or whatever place you normally hang out, in a lethargic and bored mood.
Have you been meaning to join the gym or a local sports activity or to start jogging or speed walking? Then this is the time to start.
Your ex will see your involvement or he will simply not have the satisfaction of seeing you hopeless and despondent hanging around with no agenda.
This will make your ex think you are over them or that at least you are not obsessing over them.
Take care of your appearance.
When a woman is sad and depressed it tends to show in her appearance so you need to look your very best.
This does not mean putting on a happy face but it does mean dressing your figure to advantage, having the right haircut or color and basic hygiene practices that go a long in making you feel good about yourself and who you are.
If you can afford it buy one or two strategic items that highlight you great qualities and that make you feel great.
Pamper yourself a little with a manicure or pedicure or massage...
anything to make you feel spoilt and taken care of.
But do not go into debt or splurge on things that just give you a shopping fix but which you cannot or will not use.
Don't call him.
Yes, it would be wonderful to hear his voice again but what will you be calling him about? Calling just to hear his voice again lets him know that you are still pining away for him, so if you want him to think that you are over him then avoid making needless calls to him.
When he calls don't always be available to talk as you want him to think that you are busy with life activities and with other people.
When you are available to talk keep the conversation short since you have other things to do...
don't you? To make your ex think that you are over them you need to actually find ways to expand your interests so that you get back the joy of living and to also find ways to keep yourself happy.
When you are involved and happy in life and living then you give the impression that all is well with you and you are over your ex.
And it's even worse when you know that they are right.
When you break up you want your ex to know that, yes he broke your heart but you have moved on.
There is just a feeling of victory (or is it satisfaction) when he believes that you are over him.
It makes you feel somewhat justified for how things turned out between the two of you; doesn't it? But what if you are not over your ex? How do you make your ex think that you are over them even when you are not? Fill in the empty time with something that captivates you! To make your ex think that you are over them you need to get busy and fill in the time that you used to spend with him.
Is there something you have always wanted to do but never had the time or the motivation to do it? Then this is the time to pursue that interest.
The more the activity captivates your interest and emotions the better it is for you as it will begin to displace your ex as the thing that holds all your interest.
He will think you are over him and gradually with time you will be over him.
Get involved in a physical demanding activity.
You want to use up your energy in activities so that you don't hang around the house or mall or whatever place you normally hang out, in a lethargic and bored mood.
Have you been meaning to join the gym or a local sports activity or to start jogging or speed walking? Then this is the time to start.
Your ex will see your involvement or he will simply not have the satisfaction of seeing you hopeless and despondent hanging around with no agenda.
This will make your ex think you are over them or that at least you are not obsessing over them.
Take care of your appearance.
When a woman is sad and depressed it tends to show in her appearance so you need to look your very best.
This does not mean putting on a happy face but it does mean dressing your figure to advantage, having the right haircut or color and basic hygiene practices that go a long in making you feel good about yourself and who you are.
If you can afford it buy one or two strategic items that highlight you great qualities and that make you feel great.
Pamper yourself a little with a manicure or pedicure or massage...
anything to make you feel spoilt and taken care of.
But do not go into debt or splurge on things that just give you a shopping fix but which you cannot or will not use.
Don't call him.
Yes, it would be wonderful to hear his voice again but what will you be calling him about? Calling just to hear his voice again lets him know that you are still pining away for him, so if you want him to think that you are over him then avoid making needless calls to him.
When he calls don't always be available to talk as you want him to think that you are busy with life activities and with other people.
When you are available to talk keep the conversation short since you have other things to do...
don't you? To make your ex think that you are over them you need to actually find ways to expand your interests so that you get back the joy of living and to also find ways to keep yourself happy.
When you are involved and happy in life and living then you give the impression that all is well with you and you are over your ex.