Love Advice for Guys - Dealing With Unrequited Love
I don't care who you are, at some point in time if you are actively dating and meeting women, you are going to have to deal with unrequited love. It happens from time to time no matter how hard you try to make sure that it does not. There is going to be a time when you catch feelings for a woman and she just does not feel the same way. Now, some guys just can't seem to handle this and the way that they react to unrequited love ends up making them feel like they are going crazy. Or, it makes them feel like they should just give up on dating and romance altogether. Neither one of these options is a good one, and it does not have to be this way at all.
You have to realize that no matter what you do, there are going to be things that are out of your control when dealing with another person. And that includes the feelings or lack thereof that they have for you. Now, you can get all worked up about that, you can get sad and depressed about it, OR, you can just accept it for what it is and decide that you are not going to let it get to you. The last way to react to unrequited love is the healthier choice and honestly, it is the one that you want to make.
Here is some advice on how to deal with a situation where you have feelings for a woman and she does not feel the same way about you:
1) Chalk it up as a learning experience.
You can take a look at the situation and see what it is that you may have been able to do better or differently and then that will help you out with the next woman that you meet. If you do this, then you are basically taking the proverbial lemons and making lemonade out of it. That's never a bad thing.
2) Understand that no matter what, no guy is 100 percent successful in attracting women.
I could care less about what you may have heard about some guys having the ability to literally attract any woman they want, that just does not happen. And even if they do get the woman that they want to attract, there is no guarantee that the woman is going to stay with them or stay attracted to them. Even the hunkiest Hollywood celebrities have had their share of break ups.
3) Learn to get better at creating attraction with a woman to stack the deck in your favor.
Sometimes dealing with a situation where you are unable to make a woman feel the same about you as you do about her is a good wake up call to let you know that there are still plenty of things that you can learn about attraction. Again, there is no way to guarantee that a woman is going to want you, but there are things that you can do to stack the deck in your favor and give yourself a little bit of hope. And if things don't work out with a woman you like, then move on to the next one.
What if the woman was an ex girlfriend you want back? Is there a way to make that happen?
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Copyright © 2012 Chris G. Tyler All Rights Reserved.
You have to realize that no matter what you do, there are going to be things that are out of your control when dealing with another person. And that includes the feelings or lack thereof that they have for you. Now, you can get all worked up about that, you can get sad and depressed about it, OR, you can just accept it for what it is and decide that you are not going to let it get to you. The last way to react to unrequited love is the healthier choice and honestly, it is the one that you want to make.
Here is some advice on how to deal with a situation where you have feelings for a woman and she does not feel the same way about you:
1) Chalk it up as a learning experience.
You can take a look at the situation and see what it is that you may have been able to do better or differently and then that will help you out with the next woman that you meet. If you do this, then you are basically taking the proverbial lemons and making lemonade out of it. That's never a bad thing.
2) Understand that no matter what, no guy is 100 percent successful in attracting women.
I could care less about what you may have heard about some guys having the ability to literally attract any woman they want, that just does not happen. And even if they do get the woman that they want to attract, there is no guarantee that the woman is going to stay with them or stay attracted to them. Even the hunkiest Hollywood celebrities have had their share of break ups.
3) Learn to get better at creating attraction with a woman to stack the deck in your favor.
Sometimes dealing with a situation where you are unable to make a woman feel the same about you as you do about her is a good wake up call to let you know that there are still plenty of things that you can learn about attraction. Again, there is no way to guarantee that a woman is going to want you, but there are things that you can do to stack the deck in your favor and give yourself a little bit of hope. And if things don't work out with a woman you like, then move on to the next one.
What if the woman was an ex girlfriend you want back? Is there a way to make that happen?
Check Out: Get Her Back in 30 Days or LESS to Get Her Back FAST...
Copyright © 2012 Chris G. Tyler All Rights Reserved.