Why is it So Hard to Forgive Him For Cheating?
Are you finding it nearly impossible to forgive him for cheating on you? You're not alone.
Many women in your shoes find it very difficult to forgive the men they love for cheating on them.
But, don't be so hard on yourself.
There are some very real reasons that you have a hard time forgiving.
Find out what they are below.
His Cheating Personifies Your Worst Fears Women have been sort of preconditioned to expect their husbands to cheat.
Popular fiction, movies, and television shows center around the fact that men often cheat on their wives.
We've been taught that women should stand by their man on the one hand and on the other told that you should drop the cheating you know what so fast his head will spin.
Dealing with a cheating husband forces you to accept that he is capable of cheating and that your marriage isn't all you believed it to be.
For some women this is a blow that is too hard to recover from.
Their solution is to leave it all behind and start over elsewhere.
You Thought Your Husband was Different You may expect the worst of the average man but you thought you married Prince Charming and he shouldn't be capable of falling victim to the same temptations that bring mere mortal men.
To find out that he is in fact human and fallible may be more than you bargained for.
You should believe the best about your husband but not to the exclusion of being realistic.
No, all men do not cheat.
No, his cheating isn't a sign that you are deficient in some way.
Yes, he is different but that does not mean he is perfect.
You Don't Understand Why You aren't Enough This is the real kicker for most women.
It hurts that he cheated.
You hate the lies.
But, in the end, you just can't figure out why it is that you aren't enough for him.
You want to believe that he is a good man and that he'll be faithful to you.
You have a hard time understanding how a good man can do something so hurtful.
You don't understand why he needs another woman.
That is the one thing that hurts most of all.
You feel it's a rejection of you.
Most of the time, you have nothing at all to do with his cheating.
You are going to have to really understand that before you can forgive him for cheating on you.
Many women in your shoes find it very difficult to forgive the men they love for cheating on them.
But, don't be so hard on yourself.
There are some very real reasons that you have a hard time forgiving.
Find out what they are below.
His Cheating Personifies Your Worst Fears Women have been sort of preconditioned to expect their husbands to cheat.
Popular fiction, movies, and television shows center around the fact that men often cheat on their wives.
We've been taught that women should stand by their man on the one hand and on the other told that you should drop the cheating you know what so fast his head will spin.
Dealing with a cheating husband forces you to accept that he is capable of cheating and that your marriage isn't all you believed it to be.
For some women this is a blow that is too hard to recover from.
Their solution is to leave it all behind and start over elsewhere.
You Thought Your Husband was Different You may expect the worst of the average man but you thought you married Prince Charming and he shouldn't be capable of falling victim to the same temptations that bring mere mortal men.
To find out that he is in fact human and fallible may be more than you bargained for.
You should believe the best about your husband but not to the exclusion of being realistic.
No, all men do not cheat.
No, his cheating isn't a sign that you are deficient in some way.
Yes, he is different but that does not mean he is perfect.
You Don't Understand Why You aren't Enough This is the real kicker for most women.
It hurts that he cheated.
You hate the lies.
But, in the end, you just can't figure out why it is that you aren't enough for him.
You want to believe that he is a good man and that he'll be faithful to you.
You have a hard time understanding how a good man can do something so hurtful.
You don't understand why he needs another woman.
That is the one thing that hurts most of all.
You feel it's a rejection of you.
Most of the time, you have nothing at all to do with his cheating.
You are going to have to really understand that before you can forgive him for cheating on you.