How To Live A Real Life - The Race Is Over
So what the heck do I mean? The real life? The race is over? Well let me ask you to think for a moment before you read on, is your life real? Are you happy? A Real life? Is your life real to you? Are you living the life you planned to live? Do you live a vibrant life filled with passion and excitement? (be honest) Have you achieved, or are you achieving your goals? Oh so things changed a little, OK it happens.
What happened? You got married, things maybe took another path? You thought "well this is better," So are you happy? Really? Or do you wish things were a little more to your liking? Let me jog your memory a little, what were your dreams, now don't get mad at me, I made the same choices, we all do.
Did you settle for the easy life, that was not that easy after all? Yeah don't we all! Well, I finally decided to go for what I want, it is never to late and no, you don't have to hurt anyone in the process.
Look, if your friends and family love you, then they want the best for you, it's up to you to tell them lovingly what it is that you want, and if they don't accept this then it is not REAL.
You know, even when they are upset they will eventually admire that you have a vision, this is usually what they fear.
Now I am not saying they don't love you, (in their own way) but do they love you enough to set you free, we are all human and we all have fears and doubts, we are also guilty of projecting our fears onto our loved ones, but this is what I mean when I say 'the race is over '.
It is time to stop thinking about pleasing others, we will do them, and all humanity far better when we become our true selves, in fact we hurt each other more by not living in our own truth.
Can you see this? Do you wake in the morning filled with joy that you share with someone you love? What? Why not? I hope you get what I am saying and I am not offending you.
This is your life and your dream, it is meant to be wholesome fulfilling and passionate for us all, your loved ones too, so if it is not wholesome then you do them no favours by sticking with it! In past decades we have been living under a dark cloud, this is no longer our truth, this is why we are all in such conflict now! We are now granted the freedom to be who we want to be, who we should be! It is simply up to us to take control and end the race.
So does this sound like crap? So, how long have you got, how fast are your years passing by? Do you want to leave this world with regret? I don't.
So what I mean by the 'race is over ' is this; Stop the fight, you only fight because you don't fit, stop surviving, go get your life, its easy.
Expectations you have been trying to meet, some of which you barely touch, and others you have no hope of ever achieving, are they your expectations or are you living to some dream that does not fit you? Are you are on the wrong path.
When you are on your path the race is over, it feels fine, more than fine.
It is your life what do you want?
What happened? You got married, things maybe took another path? You thought "well this is better," So are you happy? Really? Or do you wish things were a little more to your liking? Let me jog your memory a little, what were your dreams, now don't get mad at me, I made the same choices, we all do.
Did you settle for the easy life, that was not that easy after all? Yeah don't we all! Well, I finally decided to go for what I want, it is never to late and no, you don't have to hurt anyone in the process.
Look, if your friends and family love you, then they want the best for you, it's up to you to tell them lovingly what it is that you want, and if they don't accept this then it is not REAL.
You know, even when they are upset they will eventually admire that you have a vision, this is usually what they fear.
Now I am not saying they don't love you, (in their own way) but do they love you enough to set you free, we are all human and we all have fears and doubts, we are also guilty of projecting our fears onto our loved ones, but this is what I mean when I say 'the race is over '.
It is time to stop thinking about pleasing others, we will do them, and all humanity far better when we become our true selves, in fact we hurt each other more by not living in our own truth.
Can you see this? Do you wake in the morning filled with joy that you share with someone you love? What? Why not? I hope you get what I am saying and I am not offending you.
This is your life and your dream, it is meant to be wholesome fulfilling and passionate for us all, your loved ones too, so if it is not wholesome then you do them no favours by sticking with it! In past decades we have been living under a dark cloud, this is no longer our truth, this is why we are all in such conflict now! We are now granted the freedom to be who we want to be, who we should be! It is simply up to us to take control and end the race.
So does this sound like crap? So, how long have you got, how fast are your years passing by? Do you want to leave this world with regret? I don't.
So what I mean by the 'race is over ' is this; Stop the fight, you only fight because you don't fit, stop surviving, go get your life, its easy.
Expectations you have been trying to meet, some of which you barely touch, and others you have no hope of ever achieving, are they your expectations or are you living to some dream that does not fit you? Are you are on the wrong path.
When you are on your path the race is over, it feels fine, more than fine.
It is your life what do you want?