It's a common concern that a lot of people go through: you just got your life pulled back together after a breakup, and you're ready to go out there and win him back...
but you discover he's already with someone else in a new relationship.
What now?Can this still be saved? The answer is yes, you still have a great chance to get him back...
at least, no worse of a chance than if he hadn't taken a shot at a rebound relationship.
And that's all this is, just a rebound...
don't worry! A rebound happens for one reason: to help you get back on your feet and regain some confidence.
A breakup is damaging to both people, including the one who initiated it...
wondering if you're going to be able to make it on your own is a scary thing, and finding a happy short-term relationship is very reassuring.
95% of rebounds never last more than a couple weeks to a month or so...
they serve their purpose and then expire.
Generally, neither person involved has any real illusions about suddenly finding a soulmate...
it's just a way to have a little fun for awhile and get him back on his feet.
In many ways, this can actually help you...
being with someone else for a while can start to accentuate all the things he loved about being with you, and open him up more to the prospect of getting back together.
If you play your cards right, you'll find him sort of "primed" for you to work your magic on him and win him back!