One of the most common reasons for a breakup is when one partner accuses the other of being too insecure and harboring issues.
Well, everyone has it, but instead of fighting a losing battle over it, why not use some other moves to win your ex back? Agree with your ex.
By agreeing with your ex that you were insecure in the past and were loaded with pre-set issues, you will simply knock the winds of resentment from your ex's sails.
He/she might be expecting you to disagree but by agreeing, he/she will simply be at a loss of further words.
Convince your ex that you have changed.
By handling the breakup with poise and maturity, you can convince your ex that you have certainly changed for the better.
Let your ex know that you have discarded the baggage of insecurity and now posses a positive demeanor.
Pay back your ex in the same coin.
If your ex had a habit of flirting and used to get wild when you objected in the past then cunningly pay back your ex in the same coin.
Upgrade your looks and attitude to a whole new level and watch your ex squirm uncomfortably as other singles try to hit on you.
Let your ex understand that you too can make him/her feel insecure.
This will quickly knock some much-needed sense into your ex's brain.
Talk it out with your ex.
You should convince your ex that in future, you will quickly inform him/her if you feel insecure so that such fears can be dispelled quickly.
An open and honest discussion will lead to mutual respect for each other and your ex is sure to agree to a reunion once he/she is convinced that your future relationship will be based on mutual trust rather than one or both partners feeling insecure about each other and the future.