Did you know that in the majority of break ups the girl is the one to do it? Guys are the ones that usually want to stay with their girlfriends.
Interesting, isn't it? In this article I am going to give you some information from a woman's point of view on how to get your ex back.
Do yourself a favor.
Try to think deeply about whether or not your girlfriend actually did a good thing for you by breaking up with you.
If you don't come to the conclusion that this is the only girl for you and you can't ever imagine being with anyone else then maybe you shouldn't be with her after all.
Guys get stuck in a rut with girlfriends.
It's so easy to just keep things status quo then having to work at another relationship.
But that's the kiss of death for love.
And if you are just with her because it's easy for you then she knows it, even if you are not showing any signs.
But if you decide "this is the one" then read on for some things you can do to get her back.
First do you know if she still loves you? Many times women will break up during an emotional outburst and really don't want to break up with you.
If that's the case and she still loves you then you're in a very good position to get her back.
So, your first step is to do the right things to get her to come back to you.
What you don't want to do is to appear desperate.
Don't call her or send her a ton of text messages.
In short - don't make yourself look like a stalker.
Women freak out and have second thoughts about going back with men who show this kind of behavior.
The effective thing to do is to make her think that you accept the break up.
Show her that you have moved on.
Start dating.
Especially girls that she knows! The way to get your ex back is to make your ex come to you - not the other way around.
While this is going on you need to examine if you have changed or done anything to turn her off.
Did you stop paying attention to her like you did when you first started seeing each other? Did you stop appreciating her? Did you stop taking pride in your appearance? At the end of the relationship did you stop treating her like she was special.
Did you take her for granted.
If you did start preparing to never do that again.
The next time you see your ex girlfriend start reminding her of the things that you have in common.
Do this slowly.
If you are going to be anywhere that she will be then wear something that she gave you and wear a cologne that she loves.
If you get the chance to talk to her keep it positive.
Talk about all the things that the two of you shared that were happy.
Make her long for those days.
Believe me she will think about that after the two of you go home to your own places that day.
You next step is to invite her somewhere.
But only a place where other friends will be.
In other words start seeing her again in social settings where she will be comfortable - don't rush into trying to see her alone.
When she is in the group pay a little attention to her, but pay attention to your other friends, male or female too.
When she sees that you are someone others like and are attracted to then you will be half way to getting your ex back.