Your marriage is in shambles and you don't know what to do, but I was once in the same position as you and spent a long time trying to get my wife back.
Having your wife leave you is one of the worst feelings in the world, your heart aches each morning you wake up and find you're alone.
You wish desperately that you could repair things.
When I wanted to get my wife back I made some pretty major mistakes that almost ended things forever.
Don't make the same mistakes I did, take my advice to heart! Here's what not to do 1.
Don't beg her You may feel desperate enough to beg, but doing so will only put unwanted pressure on her, so she'll only shut you out.
Instead resist the temptation and give her some space.
2.
Don't persistently apologize either It's a good thing to apologize when you've done something wrong, but apologizing over and over isn't going to get you anywhere.
By doing so she'll only constantly be reminded of what was wrong.
3.
Don't make promises that you can't keep When I really wanted to get my wife back I was not only begging and constantly apologizing but I kept promising I'd change my ways even though I couldn't at the time.
By promising this when you can't or even worse don't really mean it, she'll only realize you'll never change and she'll never want to come back.
Win her back first, then discuss what needs to change.