Friends and family just don't get what your going through.
They tell you to forget your ex and that you should move on but it's so hard to even think straight when your heart has been broken - your world feels totally crushed.
Getting your ex back would be easy if you could disconnect your head and your heart...
but in reality we know it's not possible.
Everything and anything reminds you of your relationship with your ex which makes it so much worse to cope with.
A lot of people consider becoming friends immediately rather than having time apart.
I know getting your ex back is your main priority right now and you want him/her back so badly but from experience it's best to have some time apart.
If you become friends straight after the break up it's all to easy to try and pressure your ex into starting the relationship again and that definitely won't go in your favor.
Use the time to consider why you want your ex back.
Is it for the right reasons? If you know your relationship deserves another go then prove that you are committed by working out what went wrong and what part you played in the break up.
Now is not the time for the blame game.
Admit where you went wrong, nobody is perfect.
Consider ways you can improve to help make the relationship stronger.
That way when the time comes to call or meet you ex you have a better chance of being successful.