You want your ex back, but when you rush in; taking action based on emotions, you will find that your ex will be repelled.
A lot of the time, when you are doing things, you don't even notice how destructive they can be.
However, your ex knows you and will definitely notice them, and will not ever want you back.
Destroying your chances with your ex is so easy, when you are caught up in emotions, so here are some things that you may not notice yourself doing, but you should avoid at all costs: Persuasive Arguing-This means you talk to your ex, but you make arguments in the conversation as to why your ex should take you back.
Your reasoning can be anything from 'because...
i love you', to something as crushing as 'i helped you, I was the best thing that came into your life, and you won't find anything better..
..
'.
Anything along those lines, where you state how you feel and what you want; and try to argue why your ex should want it as well, will only confirm exactly how much your ex doesn't want you.
The reason for this, is because your ex will think more and more about this thing; and find arguments that disagree with your viewpoint, and things that prove you wrong.
This asserts your ex's opinion to say "no" to you, and to not want you back; since now your ex has reasons not to want you back.
Using Emotional Leverage - Trying to get your ex back based on love, or anger or any emotion will not really work.
Telling your ex that you love him/her all the time will just make your ex feel like you are trying to force them to love you.
Making your ex angry, or trying to make your ex feel guilty, will make your ex want to get away from you even faster; since this will show them that breaking up with you was a good idea.
Becoming a bad influence around your ex, by hurting yourself and trying to put the blame on your ex; will make your ex perceive you as a burden and something to be avoided.
Doing What You Think Your Ex Wants To Hear and See - At this point and time if you do anything that you feel your ex wants, or wants to see; your ex will not come back.
The reason is, if you are constantly apologizing to your ex; this will show that you do feel you were wrong; and that everything you ever did with your ex was a mistake.
Secondly, your ex will just think that you are saying this, and not doing the action.
Your ex never wanted you to do every single thing they ever asked; they do not expect you to be a robot.
When you do everything that your ex may want, your ex will only see this as an act done out of desperation, and not the real you.