You know nobody's perfect, but you also know that you messed up somehow; so you are probably asking, how do I get my ex girlfriend back now? Here are some good tips of what not to do when getting an ex girlfriend back.
Don't be desperate.
Desperation and weakness is not a good strategy in getting the girl back.
Women never want to see this in a man.
If a women needs a man, why would she want one who is needy when she can find someone strong? Showing strength after a breakup will show her how much courage and self-restraint you have-a quality that will make you more attractive to her now and down the road.
Give it some time.
No contact for a while, this means no phone calls, texting, etc.
Everyone needs time after a breakup regardless of who broke up with whom.
If your woman is worth it (you wouldn't be reading this if she wasn't) she isn't going to be rushing into someone else's arms so soon anyway, so just relax for a moment.
Time really is a healer because it gives you both a chance to think about what has happened.
Besides, don't you think she may be hurting too? Don't be alone.
This means don't drink alone, stay at home alone and cry for days, and isolate yourself from your friends and family.
Doing these things will only make you feel worse and cause you to spiral downward from who you really are.
Think about this for a moment--do you really think your girlfriend would want to be with you if you were like this? Go back to the real you.
The guy she fell in love with was probably a really cool guy.
When getting an ex girlfriend back, you have to remember the ways that you behaved that made her want to be around you in the first place.