Months, weeks, may be even days ago everything in your world seemed perfect, like nothing could go wrong.
Now it seems like everything that can go will go wrong.
While it may not feel like it and you feel alone and empty, there are many others who have gone through these same things.
The plain truth is that for one reason or another the love of your life has called it quits and your relationship seems to be going nowhere fast.
Nevertheless, if you're determined to try, here are 4 tips that may help you succeed in getting your man back: 1.
The normal reactions of a breakup are first to show surprise, no long thereafter comes the anger, and then the inevitable tears.
Men generally think this show of emotions to be pathetic and this show of emotions almost never succeeds in getting him back.
On the other hand, if you accept his choice with poise and dignity, it may leave him to be the one to feel rejected.
Showing him that you understand and accept his decision can also show him a deeper part of your character, that lovable part of your personality that he may decided that he can't live without.
This will take you a lot farther in the path of getting him back.
2.
Another thing that you can do that will make him wonder is to have no contact with him.
He broke up with you so you shouldn't call him; let him think that it hasn't affected you as much as he thought that you actually have a life of your own.
This will soon make him wonder enough to start looking into your behavior and wonder if may be breaking up was the best thing.
This will also give you both time enough to cool down and think of what you want for your future.
3.
At this point in time you should be considering whether the breakup happened because you had lost some of that charm that may have attracted him in the first place.
If that is what happened then you should be back with you man in no time! You just have to start pampering yourself.
If you spent the most part of your relationship with your attention focused on the needs of your man, chances are your needs have fallen on the wayside and it's time for a little you time.
Do some of the things that you love you to do.
Eat healthy, go out with friends, have a few laughs and get your groove on.
Nothing shows that charming personality better than a person who is happy and having a good time.
4.
Seeing some of the changes in your personality may make your man curious and he may start to show that he is going to return to you.
If you want to get your man back then don't get too excited, at least don't show him that you are.
Again, poise and dignity.
Show that you accept it but you don't need to hop up and start dancing across the office.
Having a good conversation with him where you are happy and animated a little is good, it shows that you are happy in your life and if he wants to add to it then so be it.
But, don't become a slacker, this take vigilance.
Keep the charm and make sure you do things for you so that you can have the urge to keep your man happy!