Before I learned how to get back my ex, I went through some dark times.
I still remember well the pain and confusion as I played over and over again the events that lead to our break up.
The regret and frustration I experienced is something I never want to feel again.
It was so terribly sad to think that I might lose the one I cared for forever.
I knew she really cared for me every bit as much as I cared for her.
It just seemed like we could not communicate without it all ending in yet another round of arguing, fussing, and fighting.
Still we were drawn to each other and tried countless times to put things back together again.
It was only after things got to an almost impossible point that we decided to not try and talk things out anymore.
I do not know whether either of us thought it was permanent or not.
But that was a big step.
As it turned out, that step played an important part in us being able to reconcile.
It gave each of us the time and space we needed to think things through.
Without the pressures of trying to work things out, we were able to appreciate the qualities that had first drawn us together.
It was not long until we began missing each other! I can not say it was easy to get back together.
But it was well worth the effort.
I had to learn how to get back my ex.
Things just didn't magically work themselves out.
But now things are great.
In fact, I'd say better than ever.
If you find yourself in a break up with someone you truly love, do not give up.
Make the effort and rekindle the old sparks.