The Dos of Getting Back With Your Ex
Just when loneliness goes its way to sip your bones and suck the energy out of you, you realized that it's about time to get back with your ex.
Although the thought of winning your ex back is pretty tempting, there are things that you need to follow, things that you need to do in order to make the getting back plan worth the try.
Do make things in the simplest form.
It is more than okay to still keep in touch with your ex.
This is necessary if you really have the intention of winning him back to your life once again.
However, do not go for over kill.
Casual encounters are okay.
Friendly his and hellos are good as long as these are done sporadically.
Do not fall into the temptation of calling your ex every so often or sending him or her hundreds of SMS.
These acts do not fall under the sweetest things one can do for the sake of love.
Do get up and make the most of your life.
You can never be a winner if you go on moping all day, each day.
It is best to get out from your comfort zone.
Meet other people.
Expand your friendship.
The separation may be hard, but that is no excuse of not meeting new friends.
Instead of sulking, take the most precious time to learn more and expand your horizon.
This is the perfect time for you to resort into a new hobby or visit places that you longed to see.
Do sort things out so that you are aware of the entire situation.
You should know now the real problem regarding the break-up.
On your end, you should already admit your mistakes, or any misbehavior.
Necessary adjustments should be applied.
Once you get to accept your weakness, it will move you to set detailed action plans to get back with your ex.
Do start from scratch.
Remember that you are aiming for a whole new relationship.
Getting back with your ex is really not a continuation.
Both of you are changed persons already.
So once you have created a comfortable spot again for a possible reunion, treat the relationship as brand new.
Baby steps will lead you to a whole new level of love.
When you meet your ex again for the first time after the break-up, be friendly, but not overly friendly.
Respect should be given to your ex.
Smile often and make the conversation lively all through out.
When you strictly stick with these things that you must do, definitely, this whole idea of getting back with your ex will result into perfection!
Although the thought of winning your ex back is pretty tempting, there are things that you need to follow, things that you need to do in order to make the getting back plan worth the try.
Do make things in the simplest form.
It is more than okay to still keep in touch with your ex.
This is necessary if you really have the intention of winning him back to your life once again.
However, do not go for over kill.
Casual encounters are okay.
Friendly his and hellos are good as long as these are done sporadically.
Do not fall into the temptation of calling your ex every so often or sending him or her hundreds of SMS.
These acts do not fall under the sweetest things one can do for the sake of love.
Do get up and make the most of your life.
You can never be a winner if you go on moping all day, each day.
It is best to get out from your comfort zone.
Meet other people.
Expand your friendship.
The separation may be hard, but that is no excuse of not meeting new friends.
Instead of sulking, take the most precious time to learn more and expand your horizon.
This is the perfect time for you to resort into a new hobby or visit places that you longed to see.
Do sort things out so that you are aware of the entire situation.
You should know now the real problem regarding the break-up.
On your end, you should already admit your mistakes, or any misbehavior.
Necessary adjustments should be applied.
Once you get to accept your weakness, it will move you to set detailed action plans to get back with your ex.
Do start from scratch.
Remember that you are aiming for a whole new relationship.
Getting back with your ex is really not a continuation.
Both of you are changed persons already.
So once you have created a comfortable spot again for a possible reunion, treat the relationship as brand new.
Baby steps will lead you to a whole new level of love.
When you meet your ex again for the first time after the break-up, be friendly, but not overly friendly.
Respect should be given to your ex.
Smile often and make the conversation lively all through out.
When you strictly stick with these things that you must do, definitely, this whole idea of getting back with your ex will result into perfection!