"I am very upset because I don't know why my ex is ignoring me", my close friend Susan confided in me.
She was really upset because of a relationship problem.
She tried her best to patch up with her boyfriend who broke up with her but he started ignoring her, which made her really very upset.
As you might notice, nature of human beings is somewhat eccentric and none can understand what a person thinks or what goes in his or her mind.
When your man has broken up with you, you have to first think about the reasons as to why did he break with you.
There were obviously differences between you which resulted in the breakup.
Breakups happen when two people do not agree on some issues or due to other unexplained reasons.
Similarly, when your man kicked you off from his life, it means that there were some problems.
However, that is secondary but the primary factor is that you will be in great pain- mental and emotional.
However, some women are not able to accept the fact that their relationship is over and still hope that one day they are able to get back together again.
If your problem is your ex is ignoring you it does mean that he does not want to commit in the relationship.
The pain of breakup is terrible, for both of you because he was also involved in the relationship to the same extent as you were.
The reason could be he thinks that you are not suitable for him or maybe he is guilty of whatever he had done and cannot forget about it.
On the other hand, it could be that your ex boyfriend used you and when he thought it is over, he cheated you.
This generally happens with men that after sleeping and enjoying with women, they leave their women.
The same thing had happened to Susan.
If your ex ignores you, it is a clear indication that you are not part of his life anymore.
When you have broken up you need to move on with your own life without your ex.