Clues And Signals Of An Unfaithful Partner (part 1)- By: Karen Wescott
No longer is there an idea of a committed marriage in today's culture. I have seen the strongest of marriages falter as a result of cheating. Folks usually have the same question after they hear these types of situations, "why didn't the other partner see this coming?" Many individuals think the signs of cheating are so obvious, that the other spouse had to of known what was going on. Well it is sad enough for the scorned husband or wife to learn that their partner had cheated without being blamed for their spouse cheating on them.
Having mentioned this, there are often signs that are apparent. It is extremely rare that the spouse can successfully be unfaithful on their husband or wife, without leaving behind virtually any signs or signals. Generally the signs were all there, and the innocent spouse simply didn't see them, want to see them, or had been told everything is okay. It is no good to ignore the reality of what is taking place, even though it maybe very painful. You ought to pay attention to the following signs and signals if you feel your spouse is having an affair:
1. They're always returning home late and have an excuse handy: A sign most often observed. The popular line they will use is that they have to work late. You might buy this excuse every once in awhile, but you should suspect cheating if they're doing this frequently, or smell like fragrance or cologne from the opposite gender. You most likely have just caught them in an affair at the job if they become excessively defensive as soon as you confront them.
2. They get text messages at unusual times, or they have to check their email a lot: This is undoubtedly a world full of technological communication. This may be a tell tale sign if they get communications from someone who your spouse normally never communicates with, or receives messages at weird hours of the night.
3. Laundry becomes a common regular past time: Men have a tendency to go for this one. The modern man does in fact do his own laundry these days. We all know, he will pass on doing it if someone else is willing to. So if you are a woman, and your guy is making a bee-line towards the washing machine when he gets home, this might spell trouble. It almost certainly does. On the other hand, if the woman is nervous about doing the laundry, then her partner should begin to worry.
There's gonna be a second part of this article that will give husbands and wives more tips to look out for. The signs and signals above may be seen by you already. The next action you'll take is what you must now think about. But at least you now know that it's not just your own imagination, and you're not insane. The information you collected provides sound evidence of your spouses actions, which is great.
Having mentioned this, there are often signs that are apparent. It is extremely rare that the spouse can successfully be unfaithful on their husband or wife, without leaving behind virtually any signs or signals. Generally the signs were all there, and the innocent spouse simply didn't see them, want to see them, or had been told everything is okay. It is no good to ignore the reality of what is taking place, even though it maybe very painful. You ought to pay attention to the following signs and signals if you feel your spouse is having an affair:
1. They're always returning home late and have an excuse handy: A sign most often observed. The popular line they will use is that they have to work late. You might buy this excuse every once in awhile, but you should suspect cheating if they're doing this frequently, or smell like fragrance or cologne from the opposite gender. You most likely have just caught them in an affair at the job if they become excessively defensive as soon as you confront them.
2. They get text messages at unusual times, or they have to check their email a lot: This is undoubtedly a world full of technological communication. This may be a tell tale sign if they get communications from someone who your spouse normally never communicates with, or receives messages at weird hours of the night.
3. Laundry becomes a common regular past time: Men have a tendency to go for this one. The modern man does in fact do his own laundry these days. We all know, he will pass on doing it if someone else is willing to. So if you are a woman, and your guy is making a bee-line towards the washing machine when he gets home, this might spell trouble. It almost certainly does. On the other hand, if the woman is nervous about doing the laundry, then her partner should begin to worry.
There's gonna be a second part of this article that will give husbands and wives more tips to look out for. The signs and signals above may be seen by you already. The next action you'll take is what you must now think about. But at least you now know that it's not just your own imagination, and you're not insane. The information you collected provides sound evidence of your spouses actions, which is great.