There are a lot of little things you can do that'll help you re-establish a bond with your ex and help you greatly when it comes time to really try to get him back. A lot of little tricks and signals exist that are harmless and really connect people to one another, many of which can be used to get him back.

What you need to do is find ways of interacting with your ex that are undeniably typical things that couples do, without being obvious about it or being too forward. Ways to gently touch each other without being crude or obvious are good...little pieces of nonthreatening intimacy that signify a "couple" status.

A good example is like if perhaps you and your ex are eating together (perhaps during a lunch date you won from playing your cards right before this) and he gets a little bit of food on his cheek. Casually, almost instinctively reaching over and wiping it away for him is a little signal that connects you to him and creates a little piece of a relationship. Don't do it like a mother would clean her baby, because that'll have entirely the wrong effect, but just like you're doing something for someone you care about.

Little touch signals like that are great for forging links together, and enough links will bond you together inseparably. Eventually, he'll feel like you two are in a relationship anyways, and it'll feel good...and that'll predispose him to be positive towards the idea of getting back together.

So how do you get this far, and what happens after? Those are just as important as all these little signals, if not more so. You can find answers to these questions and a lot more information about how to win your ex back by checking out the tips and videos